I hate when people say pillow princesses "don't reciprocate". I don't like the implication that I am not receiving something equally valuable in that sexual interaction. You know what feels really reciprocal about sex with pillow princesses to me? The feeling of being safe and seen and understood. When I was stone I never had a pillow princess pressure me to take my binder or bra off during sex. I've never had one try to pressure me into assuming a role that I have explicitly stated I have no interest in taking. They show so much care for stone partners due to the similar lived experiences we have of people pushing our boundaries when they predatorily want to "fix" the way we have sex. I have always felt more safe with them and I feel honored that I get to let them feel safe with me. The freedom that comes with mutual respect and open communication leads to very very good sex. I have had the best sex of my life with pillow princesses.

















