The Signs In A Relationship - Extended
At long last I finished it! Sorry this took so long.
Aries: Aries partners are very straight forward, they donât like playing games, psychologically speaking. When it comes to being playful in the relationship, Ariesâ love it! Whether itâs board games, video games, play wrestling that ends in kissing, Aries. Has. To. Win. If they donât win first time round I can guarantee there will be a round two. Being the first sign, a fire sign no less, debates can get heated but if itâs a debate about something stupid itâs more or less going to end up in an aggressive make out session. Their fiery personality can make them both hard to handle at times and amusingly challenging at others. They love to challenge you, they feel itâs a practical way to help youâs two bond and secure your relationship. Despite the fact that they come across quite headstrong, Ariesâ are easy to get riled up which can leave them vulnerable in a way. When angry, Ariesâ temper flashes wildly, without warning and is gone as quick as it came. Empathy is not their strong suit but theyâll try their very best when itâs someone they love. They might get a little uncomfortable if you cry in front of them but only because it breaks their heart to see it. Ariesâ are all about passion and they love to make their partner smile and laugh. If youâre not giving them the amount of attention or affection they want they can get grouchy until you notice it. All in all, Aries lovers can be hard to handle but an amazing companion to someone who can either cool down their fire or match it.
Taurus: Taurean partners are one of the most steady partners you can get. They like a stable, easy flowing relationship and will do what they can to achieve one. They are incredibly determined and will do what they can to make their relationship as harmonious as possible. Commitment in very important to them and they are very cautious about who they give it to, I mean REALLY cautious about it. Being one of the most sensual signs of the zodiac, Taurusâ fall quickly in lust, even quicker when itâs with someone they truly love. Ruled by Venus, Taurusâ are suckers for romance, whether they show it or not. Candles, romantic dinners, massages etc. appeal to their senses and can break down their emotional barriers. Because they are so committed and ensnared in their relationship, they can get jealous and possessive quite easily. They might not realise it, but itâs because theyâre so emotionally invested in their relationships that instincts kick in and they do what they can to keep whatâs theirs. When upset, their rage is often compared to that of a bull, their animal. It builds up over time and when released can be lethal. Do. Not. Betray. Their. Trust. They will never let it go and they might find it difficult to trust you again.
Gemini:Â Geminiâs, like the other air signs desire intellectual stimulation and is quite witty in their charm. Flirting is a game to them and they ALWAYS win. They can be quite extroverted in their relationship and likes to make it know that youâre together, theyâll take any opportunity to tell their loved ones about you. They can sometimes be caught between being in a good and bad mood, and further more if there is actually something wrong theyâll mostly try to avoid talking about it. Air signs generally find feelings icky and do there best to keep their distance. Itâs not anything personal, itâs just one of their principles whether theyâre aware of it or not. If you get onto the topic of feelings and emotions, Gems will normally try to talk their way into a different topic or try to make the situation lighter by adding humour or sarcasm, depending on the partner this could be problematic. Geminiâs get bored quite easily and need a partner thatâs willing to try new things with them and can give them a constant sense of excitement of some sort. A partner who can intellectually challenge Gemini appeals to them a lot,because they fall in love with peoples minds. They can be quite cunning when it comes to getting what they want, they may not even notice it because itâs their nature but they need someone who can handle this and keep their ass in check before people get hurt. Overall, very much like Aries, Gems can be a handful but they can open doors for you and make you think about things and question yourself, leading to personal development.
Cancer: Cancerâs are naturally the mothers of the zodiac so itâs no surprise that they are one of the most nurturing partners you could have. They will make you chicken soup when your sick and fail at serenading you when youâre sad (probably because youâll probably end up laughing). This is the sign that will put everything else on hold to care for and ensure the safety of their loved one. They are incredibly intuitive, being able to tell if a person is upset from the slightest gesture. Relationships are very important to Cancerâs and if thereâs any disruption it can cause a knock on affect in other areas of their lives. Theyâre quite sentimental and nostalgic, the type of partners that would keep memorabilia from a first date and cherish it. Cancerâs often find themselves overwhelmed by emotions and can find it almost impossible to make an intellectual decision without letting emotions come into play. This can be problematic and dangerous to both involved in the relationship. Cancerians can be manipulative when they need to be. They are fully aware of their innocent disposition and can use it to their ability when needed. This sign can encourage emotional growth in their partner but needs someone to keep them grounded and help them snap out of it when needed.Â
Leo: Leoâs are very proud in their relationships and will take any opportunity they can get to show their partner off. One of the most playful signs in the zodiac, these partners guarantee an enthusiastic and spontaneous relationship, they love to surprise. Leoâs look at the world with excitement and love, and just by being in their company, they can show you the most beautiful aspects of the simplest thing. Their optimism and persistence can bring the relationship a long way. They LOVE to be adored, whether they admit it or not, it lies deep in their soul simply because they have an air of self belief. When alone with their partner, Leoâs are very warm hearted and affectionate. They show you amazing parts of yourself you didnât even consider because they have an eye for things like that. They recover quickly from set backs so this can be helpful in a compromise based relationship. Leoâs are generally attracted to people with strong personalities, Sometimes Leoâs can be overbearing with their emotions which can leave their partner feeling a little tired but when with someoneâs whoâs personality can match theirs, they can be handled. Leoâs very rarely change their minds, once theyâre set on something - thatâs that, but if you can appeal to their emotional side, persuasion is possible, yet still very hard to do. They can sometimes fall victim to false praise in the desire to look good in front of others. With a partner who can match their fire and not take advantage of them, Leoâs love and energy can be harnessed in a positive way.
Virgo: Virgos are one of the most intellectual signs in the zodiac so relationships without mental stimulus wonât last very long. Theyâre incredibly witty and sarcastic and they use this to be playful with you. A partner who can connect with them intellectually is one that Virgoâs never get bored off. They like to pick peoples brains and to know why you like certain things. Possibly the most organised of the signs, Virgo is able to keep the relationship moving at a steady pace that suits both partners. Virgoâs have a very powerful sex drive although they tend to keep it hidden to those theyâre not intimate with and like the other earth signs can be quite sensual. They can be quite tricky when it comes to feeling and emotions. Virgos donât like feelings because they find them quite messy and often this causes them to feel torn in a relationship, making falling in love bitter sweet for them. Theyâre very detail oriented and can sometimes nit pick their partner. They can over analyse the relationship and get themselves into a worried state and make them uncomfortable. They donât like to open up much because if they talk about their feelings it makes them more real after theyâve spent a big amount of time analysing them out of existence. If they open up to you, tread carefully and try not to get too much out of them, theyâre opening up to you for a specific reason and if you try to get more, theyâll shut down again and they may never open up to you again. Virgoâs need someone who will connect with them intellectually, provide them with stability, give them space when they need, be there when they want to open up but not push them into it.
Libra: Probably the most idealistic signs when it comes to romantic relationships, Libraâs can sometimes expect too much rom-com scenarios in their relationships but only with the intention of deepening the bond between them and their lover. Libraâs personality was in some way created for love, it is the sign of balance, partnership and judgement. Librans strive to be fair and just in their relationship and desire harmony in their romantic affairs. Libraâs are great at negotiating and can maintain a harmonious atmosphere in the relationship. They are natural flirters but arenât as crude about it as some of the other signs. They love the idea of love and falling into it which can sometimes leave them vulnerable to those who might play them. Emotionally, like other air signs, they like to step back from feelings apart from when it comes to romantic love. Theyâre emotions can get intense when dealing with love and although Librans are generally not jealous people, any sort of threat to their relationship can arouse feelings of inadequacy and insecurity.They can sometimes get selfish in their relationship, wanting it to be perfect for them. With the right partner that can roll with their ideas and can be 100% devoted/loyal to them, Libraâs can provide others with a fair, amorous relationship that never gets unromantic.
Scorpio: Scorpioâs are easily the most secretive signs in the zodiac and can be hard to get to know. In public they donât show much affection other than hand or waist holding, but behind closed doors they can be completely different. Scorpioâs can often feel torn because even though they need an outlet, needing a partner makes Scorpio feel vulnerable and they like to see themselves as emotionally self-sufficient. Dominance and power in a big thing with this sign, they like to be in control of the situation at all times. They never wear their heart on their sleeves. When in a committed relationship they show just how passionate and erotic they are behind their enigmatic exterior. They feel things so deeply in their souls but you may never know unless they choose to let you in - if they do, you should be honoured. They will empathise with your problems internally, normally not letting you know they sometimes feel the same. They expect absolute utmost loyalty and faithfulness as they provide you with nothing less. If you betray or stray from a Scorpio, good luck getting them to trust you again. They never forget or forgive, even if they pretend they do, and it takes forever, if at all, to get their trust back. They can always see into your heart so donât bother trying to lie to them. Scorpioâs are best know for their out lash - and rightly so! Itâs in their nature to use attack as their defence, their partner needs to understand this and be patient with them. They normally lash out because they feel vulnerable on some level. With a partner that can understand their complex emotions and be patient and stable while they figure themselves out, Scorpios can be one of them most of the most compassionate and encouraging partners in the zodiac.
Sagittarius:Â Sagittarianâs are one of the most freedom-loving signs in the zodiac and can sometimes become uneasy when it comes to settling down. They love new things so sometimes the thought of commitment can be unappealing however, when in love Sagittarius can bring the spice of life to their partner. They love to flirt, and theyâre great at it too. While Aries is passionate in their flirting and Leo is playful, Sagittariusâ are incredibly fiery, the type that will challenge you for the hell of it. Travel is a big keyword with Sagittariusâ, they can get bored easily and need something (or someone) to keep them on their feet. A very independent sign, they will not take any shit from anyone and will call you out if youâre acting up. They will not tolerate time wasters. Sagittariusâ donât enjoy thinking about emotions and much less feeling them. They feel that theyâre emotions can hinder their ambition and likes to leave them untouched so donât expect them to frequently get deep into their emotions because chances are they will change the subject on a lighter note. They tend to lie without really noticing it and can sometimes make promises they donât keep. Itâs not that they disregard them purposely, itâs just they might forget in their pursuit of even more new experiences. For this reason, their partner might need to be able to take the things they say with a pinch of salt. With a partner that can keep up the pace and adapt to Sagittariusâ ever changing interests, not drag them down or put pressure on them to commit too soon, Sagittariusâ can show them the world in a whole new light with wondrous opportunityâs.
Capricorn: Like the other earthy signs, Capricornâs are normally quite reserved in public when with their partner but when alone (varying on how close they are) they can really let loose. They have an unusual sense of humour which can come across as dark to some. When you know them extremely well, you might get the chance to see how much of a wild card Caps can really be. This sign is one of the most reliable in the zodiac and possess incredible strength of character which can handle strong personalities. Theyâre often described as the ârockâ in the relationship, they can keep the other partner grounded without crushing their spirit. Theyâre very patient when it comes to other and respect their partners wishes as theyâd like to be respected in turn. Their relationships tend to last very long and they take their responsibility in the relationship seriously. They have a very cool demeanour until aroused sexually. They tend to be very lusty rather than love-y, because theyâre very careful about love. Capricorns panic when theyâre not in control of a situation and somewhat lacks the ability to express their emotions properly. When a Capricorn opens up to you, the things theyâll tell you will break your heart and you must treat that information as carefully as you can because it has taken a lot for the Cap to tell you. With a partner that wonât smother them but at the same time commit to the relationship as much as they do, Capricorns can provide a harmonious, steady and fruitful relationship.
Aquarius: Aquarian partners can be very eccentric and hyper when with their partner - in both private and public! This sign will seek equality in the relationship, to be together as a team. They are the sign known for change and growth, this will be the sign that can easily get their relationship to evolve at a healthy pace. This sign values companionship in their romantic relationship, they enjoy the company of those who they can sit with and question society and existence one minute and do the most random, pointless activity with the next simply because it makes them happy. Like the other air signs, Aquarians can some times be idealistic and will try to sneakily get their own way. Although they may seem detached and not very feeling, below the surface lies conflicting, chaotic emotions. For that reason they need stability, especially in a relationship. Intimacy can be awkward for them sometimes because theyâre so independent and they find it hard to express the complex emotions they feel despite their verbal intelligence. However they will sit with you and listen to your woes and try to find a solution, they probably wonât delve into their own problems that often and when they do theyâll finish with âbut anywayâ and then change the subject so to not dwell on them. With an optimistic partner that can respect Aquaâs need for space, can listen to their opinions and not base the whole relationship off of intimacy and physical attraction, Aquariusâ can learn to express themselves and their ideas better and can give their partner a mind opening experience.
Pisces: Pisceans can be tricky when it comes to love, they fall in love with the idea of love like Libras but are wary of it like Scorpios. Incredibly intuitive, they can always tell when their partner is feeling off just by the way they come into the room. They are probably the most understanding sign in the zodiac and wonât push you into talking if you donât want to (even if it frustrates them a little). When you do decide to talk about it, Piscesâ are excellent listeners and will provide empathy and validation for your feelings. They know how much emotions can affect people, having felt their own so very deeply and make it their priority to take care of their partners emotional needs. Like the air signs, they tend to be infatuated by intellectual stimulus as long as the other person isnât being snobbish about it. Though they might not show it, words can hurt them a lot and they tend to take things to heart, even if they know it wasnât intentional. This sign can be prone to guilt and can be manipulated easily enough. However, theyâre just as willing to play the game and can manipulate just as well. They adapt to their surroundings a lot so their emotional state in terms of romance can be a reflection on the state of the relationship itself. They tend to drift between merging with their partner and flirting with other possibilities. With a partner who can be patient with them, understand their emotional complexity and keep them grounded whenever they get second thoughts, Piscesâ can lead their partner to inner contentment and show them that if you look hard enough thereâs still good left in the world.
*CHECK YOUR VENUS/MOON SIGNS TOO
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