travis, any pronouns, white. i love my friend vinny's oc shun more than my hypothetical firstborn. header by kuzuyami!
icon ID: The Pokemon Sylveon, placed over the bigender flag. | header ID: A gif taken from the movie Words Bubble Up Like Soda Pop. Both main characters are depicted walking to the left, the screen split down the middle to show the difference between their lives.
hi, i'm travis "travvy" officialgleamstar, and i'm weird about jodie foster (no, not that one)
i'm an adult (20s), use any pronouns, and i do not have a dni. i love to ramble so there's more below the cut, but that's all you need to know about me <3
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my ex-boyfriend once described me as "somehow both aloof and cold but also super cutesy at the same time" and to this day, it's still my favorite description of myself. take this to heart. i'm a friendly guy but holding a conversation is the bane of my existence. i'm an ace lesbian, polyamorous, nonbinary (bigender/genderfluid), and i love neopronouns (especially kit/kits). i'm also white and live in the united states
for tagging spoilers - for weekly/episodic shows/podcasts/etc, i only tag spoilers for the most recent episode. if its a big plot event, like a character death, i give it an extra episode or two afterwards with spoiler tags. for books, i generally dont tag spoilers, and for movies, i tag spoilers for about a month after it comes out. i always tag with the format of "[x] spoilers", and usually will shorten the media title down to an acronym (i.e., fantasy high: junior year spoilers = "fhjy spoilers")
as stated, i do not have a dni, and anyone can follow me. this account is generally sfw, but i do reblog/post suggestive content or sexually intended art from time to time. if anything feels too borderline for me, i will tag it as "nsfw", and i request that minors don't interact with those posts. i try to tag nudity as well as common triggers, but i don't have great memory, so things slip through the cracks
i'm fine with being teased, flirted with, etc, and i tend to hit on a variety of my mutuals around my age. if i fall under your dni but you interact with me first, i will interact back, please be aware of this! i try to respond to everything in good faith, but if i get an ask that is blatantly just hate mail or bait, i will just pretend that you are asking for rap music recommendations and proceed accordingly. because i like excuses to talk about rap. also stop asking me if i'm a pro-shipper or an anti-shipper, i write real person fiction, do you think i really care LOL assume i am whatever will piss you off worse
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βThe only way I unofficially incorporate Superman in my classroom is I explicitly bring up the value of hope. No one can argue with that, right?β
When Clark Kent volunteers to write a piece about a prominent citizen in Metropolis, everyone is a bit surprised- and a little amused- when Clark picks local middle school teacher, Maddox Darling.
To Clark though, teaching middle school science is important. Of course, he canβt help but ask Maddox about his other βname to fameβ- the videos he posts that are pro-Superman and anti-Lex Luthor. While most are with Maddox, there are a few naysayers. When asked about if he brings his βSuperman ideologyβ into the classroom, Maddox has the perfect response.
The only problem- or maybe lack of a problem?
Clark finds himself drawn to Maddox after the interview, in a way he never has been to another man before.
Great- just what he needed: a new gender to be down for and fumble with.
Except Maddox might be just hopeless when it comes to this situation as Clark is.
Someone will say "as a queer person in the heart of empire, my life is in danger every day" and you'll find out they're a developer for Amazon and live in San Francisco or Seattle or some shit, and then you'll meet a trans girl from Alva, OK who's like "Yeah, things are pretty good. AutoZone moved me to full-time."
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when i say age gap discourse has gone crazy i mean i just a comment on insta where someone said they felt bad having a crush on jude bellingham bc theyβre 25 and jude is 23. what are we doing
besides the obvious that people should have the right to do what they want with their bodies as a form of self expression, the stigma against face tattoos specifically has a long, violent, racist, imperialist history that stretches across the globe
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they need to invent clubbing for boring sober people who don't like loud music or crowded group dancing. what's the "she should be at the club" for this hypothetical not-me demographic.
roundup of various common suggestions in the notes:
"the library": a nice space to hang, granted, but not really the same fun social vibes.
"the night-library that serves pink drinks and tea": okay okay, now we're cooking.
"coffee shop": a bit more social and rambunctious than the average library, but still too plain imo.
"the museum": still a tad too formal I feel like but definitely not opposed.
"the book club": again, not opposed, but book clubs do have the catch of requiring you to plan ahead and do some homework to really enjoy it, not a very "I'm bored on a friday and want to go do something fun" activity.
"wine tasting":
"dnd/ttrpg nights": unfortunately I'm stupid and am bad at these games. I mean unfortunately these hypothetical people are stupid and bad at these games.
"arcades with cover fees at the door and then free games": won't even lie this sounds killer, gonna see if they have any of those in my area.
"babe the club is wherever you feel confident in yourself, life is a club and Iβm just chilling at a bus stop": beautiful. poetic. heart warming. she should be at the bus stop.
the thing about the concept of gendered socialization is that so many people use it as like another kind of gender essentialism. you know it's not an immutable trait right. you can literally overcome it.
"i'm like this because women are socialized to be shy and quiet and subservient" okay good on you for recognizing it, but that's only the very first step. the next few steps are that you Stop Doing It. feminist thought vs feminist action.
and when ppl see a trans woman being confident and unafraid to take up space and decide it's because of her evil evil male socialization, i'm always like "wait you're saying this woman was raised as a child to be loud and confident and take up space? that's awesome, i thought that's how we WANTED people to raise girls? why exactly is it a problem now? π€"
like WHY are you telling trans women that they literally have to make themselves smaller and conform to the WORST gender exceptations of women to be seen as real women. since when is it evil and masculine to be confident, i thought we were supposed to be doing that. i thought that was feminism.
They also treat socialisation as some indelible artefact of the past, not an ongoing process. Women aren't just more shy and cautious on average because they were taught that as small children; they're like that because of the environment they're still in at forty or fifty. It's not some irremovable childhood brainwashing, it's a reasonable reaction to current circumstances. A great many trans women become more shy and quieter after coming out or transitioning because the people around them socially punish them for not doing so, same as previously shy and quiet cis women become more confident and take up more space when put in environments that don't punish them for it. They act like someone's personality and behaviour are branded into them based on whether they have a penis at eight years old, but that is simply not the case.
Whenever I see people who are like "trans women are all loud and aggressive and uncouth (/negative)" I automatically think "do you think black women are all loud and aggressive and uncouth (/negative) too? Because that's what you sound like. You sound like someone who met two or three women from an oppressed minority that were more confident than you wanted them to be, and decided that the whole demographic was beneath you in a different way for daring to not stay in their place."
Eridian OC posts are always funny to me because half of them reference that Fin guy and I was originally really confused about that because I had no clue what posts they were referring to and eventually I realized I just have that guy blocked and I have no clue why or when that happened but I havenβt seen any of these art pieces that apparently everyone finds super inspirational
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