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💜Loka // inclusionist 💜 💜former exclusionist💜 💜genderless Gay // Puerto rican💜 💜I speak English, French and Spanish💜💜Minor💜 💜I like marvel, minecraft, Gorillaz and The Harvester💜 // I speak Spanish, English and french💜

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Hello friends! I am starting a discord server for queer people who just want a chill place to hang out and make friends. This server is for any lgbtq person who is not an exclusionist/lgbtqphobe/racist/bigot of any kind.

Application to join the server (it’s easy, I promise):

https://goo.gl/forms/WcVdgytxkfLM7UvL2

Application to be a mod (fill out the other application first):

https://goo.gl/forms/kFJaLkipZIvqUxCC2

There will be spaces to talk about hobbies, interests, advice, memes, gay stuff, specific chats for your gender/orientation, and more!

This is server is explicitly inclusive of trans/nb/aspec/bi/pan individuals

@anna-discourse @fuckyeahasexual @online-gsa @webber-course @kuromi-course @twocannon @arokaladin @goodpositivitylgbt

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down with cis but it's actually down with cis people pretending to be trans and taking resources away from actual trans people

~Kuro

Anon was a victim of the down with cis bus

anon said nothing of their own gender or if they’re trans or cis, but i guess anyone who disagrees with you is cis now!!! lol!!!

if anything, anon is most likely to be a trans person who was hurt by tucute/nondysphoric misinformation, or a cis ally of a trans person hurt by misinformation!!

-Shiro

It’s a joke scoob

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“It’s a joke” is a deflector. how bout instead of saying everything is a joke you own up to yourself and admit that whether or not it was a joke, it was wrong to say. if you can’t see why the down with cis bus is lawfully and (hopefully in your book) morally wrong, then I can’t help you.

It really wasn’t, and it’s not a deflection, I literally just made a joke about the anon being bitter about the phrase “down with cis” (a joke in itself) using a ridiculous story that almost everybody knows about (and knows it’s fake, do you think that’s a real story?!?!)

I wasn’t calling the anon cis, y’all are just reaching so you can demonise tucutes or whatever

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some things can’t be taken as jokes. yes, it’s a joke and not real but that literally pushes people to not want to be cis and harm themselves. I’m not trying to demonise tucutes either, if it was taken that way then I’m really sorry. I actually didn’t mention tucutes at all so. I realize this little scuffle was kind of ridiculous and I’ll back off, but I wanted to put my two cents in.

I just don’t understand why you’re so upset over what I said? I obviously don’t actually think anons a victim of the “down with cis bus” since it doesn’t exist, so? The reason you’re acting like I’m evil for saying that? Is genuinely just confusing, and definitely comes across as you deliberately making reaches to try and make me look bad

And I’m pretty sure “down with cis” doesn’t make cis people want to be trans, you just think that because you think trans people who disagree with you are actually cis

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I’m sorry. I get pretty passionate about this kinda stuff so I don’t think about what I’m getting across. all the cis hate does make some (some) cis people want to be trans so they aren’t seen as oppressors (something i see a minority of tucutes portray them as) I don’t think people who disagree with me are actually cis. I used to be a tucute and I don’t think of past me as “less trans”, just figuring things out. you seem to have this idea that I’m one of the Evil Truscum and that’s fine but I don’t think tucutes or even mogai people aren’t trans.

p.s. i don’t think i’m truscum or a tucute, i believe you need your brain’s sex to not match your body’s sex to be trans and not necessarily dysphoria. if brain sex isn’t real or you can’t get a brain scan then i say dysphoria and euphoria together are the main indicators of being trans, which would make me truscum (but correct me if that’s wrong), but it’s not my main argument. i’m willing to change my mind, though.

You think….you think trans people aren’t oppressed?

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what? no, i just mean cis people aren’t all oppressors. i worded my statement badly. i just mean there are cis allies even if they seem rare. obviously trans people are oppressed but there are still cis people who will stand up for us and support us and help us not be oppressed. so some people saying all cis people are bad makes us look like we hate cis people only because they’re cis.

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i realized i didn’t answer your tags so here we go

1. aight (and how do you know my opinions are bad?)

2. how am i defending transmeds calling non-dysphorics cis? i don’t support that, especially when those kinds of transmeds misgender non-dysphorics

3. so what does it mean? was i just supposed to say “mogai” or “people who identify with mogai”?

4. basically if someone is bio male and their brain is female then they’d be a transwoman. it’s just gender incongruence

5. i’m talking about looking at the brain and seeing whether it’s male, female, or in-between. it’s more complicated than that but there are people who have done it before and trans people have a brain that doesn’t match their biological sex. females usually have female brains, so a female with a male brain is a body and brain that don’t match.

I mean you’re defending transmeds who are calling nondysphoric people cis (the anon)

‘Marginalised orientations, gender alignments and intersex (people)’ doesn’t inherently mean “certain Nonbinary people”, so you’re statement before didn’t make sense, tucutes are inherently trans but mogai people aren’t

(Mogai is just another word for lgbt+, contrary to popular belief it’s not actually supposed to refer to a separate group)

I’m pretty sure people couldn’t recreate that study you’re talking about (the brain scans), but I’d need to do more research

down with cis but it's actually down with cis people pretending to be trans and taking resources away from actual trans people

~Kuro

Anon was a victim of the down with cis bus

anon said nothing of their own gender or if they’re trans or cis, but i guess anyone who disagrees with you is cis now!!! lol!!!

if anything, anon is most likely to be a trans person who was hurt by tucute/nondysphoric misinformation, or a cis ally of a trans person hurt by misinformation!!

-Shiro

It’s a joke scoob

cinnamonisms-deactivated2025070

“It’s a joke” is a deflector. how bout instead of saying everything is a joke you own up to yourself and admit that whether or not it was a joke, it was wrong to say. if you can’t see why the down with cis bus is lawfully and (hopefully in your book) morally wrong, then I can’t help you.

It really wasn’t, and it’s not a deflection, I literally just made a joke about the anon being bitter about the phrase “down with cis” (a joke in itself) using a ridiculous story that almost everybody knows about (and knows it’s fake, do you think that’s a real story?!?!)

I wasn’t calling the anon cis, y’all are just reaching so you can demonise tucutes or whatever

cinnamonisms-deactivated2025070

some things can’t be taken as jokes. yes, it’s a joke and not real but that literally pushes people to not want to be cis and harm themselves. I’m not trying to demonise tucutes either, if it was taken that way then I’m really sorry. I actually didn’t mention tucutes at all so. I realize this little scuffle was kind of ridiculous and I’ll back off, but I wanted to put my two cents in.

I just don’t understand why you’re so upset over what I said? I obviously don’t actually think anons a victim of the “down with cis bus” since it doesn’t exist, so? The reason you’re acting like I’m evil for saying that? Is genuinely just confusing, and definitely comes across as you deliberately making reaches to try and make me look bad

And I’m pretty sure “down with cis” doesn’t make cis people want to be trans, you just think that because you think trans people who disagree with you are actually cis

cinnamonisms-deactivated2025070

I’m sorry. I get pretty passionate about this kinda stuff so I don’t think about what I’m getting across. all the cis hate does make some (some) cis people want to be trans so they aren’t seen as oppressors (something i see a minority of tucutes portray them as) I don’t think people who disagree with me are actually cis. I used to be a tucute and I don’t think of past me as “less trans”, just figuring things out. you seem to have this idea that I’m one of the Evil Truscum and that’s fine but I don’t think tucutes or even mogai people aren’t trans.

p.s. i don’t think i’m truscum or a tucute, i believe you need your brain’s sex to not match your body’s sex to be trans and not necessarily dysphoria. if brain sex isn’t real or you can’t get a brain scan then i say dysphoria and euphoria together are the main indicators of being trans, which would make me truscum (but correct me if that’s wrong), but it’s not my main argument. i’m willing to change my mind, though.

You think….you think trans people aren’t oppressed?

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what? no, i just mean cis people aren’t all oppressors. i worded my statement badly. i just mean there are cis allies even if they seem rare. obviously trans people are oppressed but there are still cis people who will stand up for us and support us and help us not be oppressed. so some people saying all cis people are bad makes us look like we hate cis people only because they’re cis.

Well all cis people have privilege over us even if they aren’t actively doing anything to oppress us and people making statements like “god I hate cis people” after experiencing transphobia just really isn’t on the same level as actual bigotry and if cis people get upset over that stuff it probably means that they’re deliberately trying to make trans people look bad or are taking it way too seriously– kinda like how you two took my comment way too seriously

#also did you change this #i saw it earlier and youd replied to what i said in the tags

Neopronuns aren’t valid and damage the trans community. Discuss?

How do you even get to this conclusion….neopronouns have been used for decades and yet we’re doing fine

Neopronouns haven’t been used for decades?? They’re all new and created on tumblr??

Hfjdjdbdhsj maybe do some research before making stupid statements

Xe/xem/xyr has been used since the early 90s

In 1934-1961 Merriam-Webster’s included the singular gender neutral pronoun ‘thon’

In 1991, Kelly Ann Sippell provided an extensive list of gender-neutral third-person singular pronouns that had been proposed over the previous hundred and fifty years. This list included, but was not limited to, hes, hiser, hem, ons, e, heer, he’er, hesh, se, heesh, herim, co, tey, per, na, en, herm, em, hir, and shey.

“Within the 19th century, pronouns such as ip, co, xie, per, en, ne, thon, le, hiser, ey, ho po, heshe, ze, heesh, bun, bunself, ey, and xe, had been introduced for non-binary representation.”

[source] [source] [source]

#the last two points are kinda the same thing but oh well #i specifically wanted the inclusion of bun/bunself since truscum make fun of that a lot despite them originally being coined in the 1800s

type “i am” in the tags and whatever comes up first is your new mandatory kin

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down with cis but it's actually down with cis people pretending to be trans and taking resources away from actual trans people

~Kuro

Anon was a victim of the down with cis bus

anon said nothing of their own gender or if they’re trans or cis, but i guess anyone who disagrees with you is cis now!!! lol!!!

if anything, anon is most likely to be a trans person who was hurt by tucute/nondysphoric misinformation, or a cis ally of a trans person hurt by misinformation!!

-Shiro

It’s a joke scoob

cinnamonisms-deactivated2025070

“It’s a joke” is a deflector. how bout instead of saying everything is a joke you own up to yourself and admit that whether or not it was a joke, it was wrong to say. if you can’t see why the down with cis bus is lawfully and (hopefully in your book) morally wrong, then I can’t help you.

It really wasn’t, and it’s not a deflection, I literally just made a joke about the anon being bitter about the phrase “down with cis” (a joke in itself) using a ridiculous story that almost everybody knows about (and knows it’s fake, do you think that’s a real story?!?!)

I wasn’t calling the anon cis, y’all are just reaching so you can demonise tucutes or whatever

cinnamonisms-deactivated2025070

some things can’t be taken as jokes. yes, it’s a joke and not real but that literally pushes people to not want to be cis and harm themselves. I’m not trying to demonise tucutes either, if it was taken that way then I’m really sorry. I actually didn’t mention tucutes at all so. I realize this little scuffle was kind of ridiculous and I’ll back off, but I wanted to put my two cents in.

I just don’t understand why you’re so upset over what I said? I obviously don’t actually think anons a victim of the “down with cis bus” since it doesn’t exist, so? The reason you’re acting like I’m evil for saying that? Is genuinely just confusing, and definitely comes across as you deliberately making reaches to try and make me look bad

And I’m pretty sure “down with cis” doesn’t make cis people want to be trans, you just think that because you think trans people who disagree with you are actually cis

cinnamonisms-deactivated2025070

I’m sorry. I get pretty passionate about this kinda stuff so I don’t think about what I’m getting across. all the cis hate does make some (some) cis people want to be trans so they aren’t seen as oppressors (something i see a minority of tucutes portray them as) I don’t think people who disagree with me are actually cis. I used to be a tucute and I don’t think of past me as “less trans”, just figuring things out. you seem to have this idea that I’m one of the Evil Truscum and that’s fine but I don’t think tucutes or even mogai people aren’t trans.

p.s. i don’t think i’m truscum or a tucute, i believe you need your brain’s sex to not match your body’s sex to be trans and not necessarily dysphoria. if brain sex isn’t real or you can’t get a brain scan then i say dysphoria and euphoria together are the main indicators of being trans, which would make me truscum (but correct me if that’s wrong), but it’s not my main argument. i’m willing to change my mind, though.

You think....you think trans people aren’t oppressed?

#excluding the not needung dysphoria bit #you have the exact same bad opinions as transmeds #and youre defending transmeds calling non-dysphorics cis #‘’even mogai people’’ you keep usimg that word but i dont think you know what it means #not really sure what youre talking about with the brain sex stuff #what does neuroimaging have to do with brain sex anyway

The wildest thing that’s happened to me today is somebody lecturing me about how the Down With Cis bus is “lawfully and morally wrong”

#dvhdksks #anti-transmed #anti-truscum

down with cis but it's actually down with cis people pretending to be trans and taking resources away from actual trans people

~Kuro

Anon was a victim of the down with cis bus

anon said nothing of their own gender or if they’re trans or cis, but i guess anyone who disagrees with you is cis now!!! lol!!!

if anything, anon is most likely to be a trans person who was hurt by tucute/nondysphoric misinformation, or a cis ally of a trans person hurt by misinformation!!

-Shiro

It’s a joke scoob

cinnamonisms-deactivated2025070

“It’s a joke” is a deflector. how bout instead of saying everything is a joke you own up to yourself and admit that whether or not it was a joke, it was wrong to say. if you can’t see why the down with cis bus is lawfully and (hopefully in your book) morally wrong, then I can’t help you.

It really wasn’t, and it’s not a deflection, I literally just made a joke about the anon being bitter about the phrase “down with cis” (a joke in itself) using a ridiculous story that almost everybody knows about (and knows it’s fake, do you think that’s a real story?!?!)

I wasn’t calling the anon cis, y’all are just reaching so you can demonise tucutes or whatever

cinnamonisms-deactivated2025070

some things can’t be taken as jokes. yes, it’s a joke and not real but that literally pushes people to not want to be cis and harm themselves. I’m not trying to demonise tucutes either, if it was taken that way then I’m really sorry. I actually didn’t mention tucutes at all so. I realize this little scuffle was kind of ridiculous and I’ll back off, but I wanted to put my two cents in.

I just don’t understand why you’re so upset over what I said? I obviously don’t actually think anons a victim of the “down with cis bus” since it doesn’t exist, so? The reason you’re acting like I’m evil for saying that? Is genuinely just confusing, and definitely comes across as you deliberately making reaches to try and make me look bad

And I’m pretty sure “down with cis” doesn’t make cis people want to be trans, you just think that because you think trans people who disagree with you are actually cis

#i have cis friends who joke about down with cis and the down with cis bus #its never been anything other than a joke #truscum/transmeds willfully misinterpret it

Seriously though did that person think the down with cis bus is real????

down with cis but it's actually down with cis people pretending to be trans and taking resources away from actual trans people

~Kuro

Anon was a victim of the down with cis bus

anon said nothing of their own gender or if they’re trans or cis, but i guess anyone who disagrees with you is cis now!!! lol!!!

if anything, anon is most likely to be a trans person who was hurt by tucute/nondysphoric misinformation, or a cis ally of a trans person hurt by misinformation!!

-Shiro

It’s a joke scoob

cinnamonisms-deactivated2025070

“It’s a joke” is a deflector. how bout instead of saying everything is a joke you own up to yourself and admit that whether or not it was a joke, it was wrong to say. if you can’t see why the down with cis bus is lawfully and (hopefully in your book) morally wrong, then I can’t help you.

It really wasn’t, and it’s not a deflection, I literally just made a joke about the anon being bitter about the phrase “down with cis” (a joke in itself) using a ridiculous story that almost everybody knows about (and knows it’s fake, do you think that’s a real story?!?!)

I wasn’t calling the anon cis, y’all are just reaching so you can demonise tucutes or whatever

#this is why im not a transmed anymore lol

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down with cis but it's actually down with cis people pretending to be trans and taking resources away from actual trans people

~Kuro

Anon was a victim of the down with cis bus

anon said nothing of their own gender or if they’re trans or cis, but i guess anyone who disagrees with you is cis now!!! lol!!!

if anything, anon is most likely to be a trans person who was hurt by tucute/nondysphoric misinformation, or a cis ally of a trans person hurt by misinformation!!

-Shiro

It’s a joke scoob

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one time I had the 17 year old pansexual nonbinary president of my school’s QuILTBAG club try and convince me that transtrender and asexy were as bad as the n-word and I went through all 5 stages of grief at once

That’s true I was the trans trended

down with cis but it's actually down with cis people pretending to be trans and taking resources away from actual trans people

~Kuro

Anon was a victim of the down with cis bus

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tucutes are wild

they put something in the transmed tag then when u interact with it they’re all like “REEEE MY BIO SAYS TRANSMEDS DO NOT INTERACTS!1!!!! UWU!!!!!” Like ok but you cross-tagged it?¿ thats ur own goddamn fault, elliot

People tag trigger/content warnings and it makes it show up in the tags, block them and move on w your life

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i love looking in the mogai tag its so funny seeing things like “feminine nb cowboysexual and in a queerplatonic relationship!!!1!!11!!1!!!!”

I like looking in the mogai tag because I get to see sad ass “anti-mogais” making stuff up for notes

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using all these microlables makes me happy and secure in my identity ! maybe i won’t use them in 10 years maybe i wont use them in 5 but for right now, they make me happy and make me feel safe in myself, and that’s okay. do what makes you happiest now. it’s okay to realize theyre not for you later.

Neopronuns aren’t valid and damage the trans community. Discuss?

How do you even get to this conclusion....neopronouns have been used for decades and yet we’re doing fine

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