Where Do All The Calculators Go?

now, you don't have to, and you can't, spend your energy digging into everything all the time. you are allowed to be "shallow" sometimes and accept things for their surface value, because the alternative would be exhausting.

but you can't fault other people who choose to spend their energy digging into the thing you've decided you weren't going to dig into.

Holland March: Holly, please be honest with me. Please don't tell me what I want to hear just because I'm your dad. Am I a bad person?

i know who you pretend i am

Father James: "Grief... It can overwhelm you if you let it. It can... suffocate you, and... reduce you down to nothin'. So, the key is to, uh... Look for light inside those around us to... grab a hold of it."