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So I just came out to my brother that I'm Trans, he doesn't like it. It sucks because I love him very much and I don't want to get cut off from him. I've been dreading this because I knew this would happen. He says the name I've chosen is me trying to be someone I'm not and that he'll keep calling me by my deadname even when he's around people who call me by my chosen name. He says that I've been lying to people by not sharing my deadname and that scares me because I hate lying, but this name means the world to me and he says this name meaning the world to me is "unhealthy". And he says I should move somewhere new and change it instead of changing it sooner in this town I live in so no one will know me. IDK what he's getting at, but it saddens me that someone Ive been so "attached-at-the-hip" to, would not accept who I am. I'll talk to my therapist (when and if I get one) about it but I just needed to vent a bit.