you really could be DEPRESSED for MONTHS and the only thing people will notice about you is how easily you get irritated

I have been in multiple situations where a friend group I'm not so familiar with starts making jokes about being into weirdo pervert stuff and there is a slight edge of competition to who is The Most Freakish I know for a goddamn fact that I have everyone beat in the pervert department but I can't say anything because they're probably just talking about light BDSM at most and I like things that are complete social suicide in 90% of spaces

like oh when you like puppyplay and choking its subversive and edgy but when I talk about getting my sexual awakening at 8 years old from the really fucking weird plant vore sequence in the third ice age movie it's WEIRD and EMBARRASSING i see how it is,

oh so this post stops getting notes when I make that addition, i see how it is,

sorry to hear that you haven’t been feeling all that great lately. Do you want me to hunt you for sport

no worries if not. will be thinking of you regardless

I think it's important to understand that trans women, trans men, and nonbinary people pretty much all experience systemic misogyny. Of course there are individual exceptions, and the severity of the misogyny experienced can vary drastically from microaggressions to extreme violence. And there are trends in who experiences what. For example trans women (especially Black trans women) tend to experience more fatal violence than trans men or nonbinary people do. And it's important to talk about these trends, and recognize that some people in the queer and trans communities are more vulnerable than others to certain forms of misogyny. That being said I also don't think there are very many trans people who have overall benefited from the patriarchy. That's not to say that trans people can NEVER benefit from it—some transmascs for example do recreate misogynistic dynamics within the trans community, and some trans women are misogynistic to other women (because spoiler alert: women can be misogynistic too!!). Generally speaking, though, trans people of all genders are significantly victimized and harmed by the patriarchy. Acting as though any one group of trans people is systemically benefiting from the patriarchy in the same way cis men are is, frankly, ignorant if not actively incendiary. Basically what I'm getting at is that in order to get a full understanding of the ways transphobia and misogyny interact you have got to actively listen to trans people of varying genders about their experiences. Only ever listening to trans men will give you a skewed idea of trans women's experiences; only ever listening to trans women will give you an inaccurate view of trans men's experiences. And only ever listening to binary trans people is going to give you an incomplete understanding of what nonbinary people go through.

Potential blood clot in my arm from surgery. lol. Lmao even.

Never mind. ER.

Yep it’s a blood clot! Not in a deep vein though and dr says that’s fine. Still worried I’m gonna die but oh well.

lets start blair witching it in the corner. together

Potential blood clot in my arm from surgery. lol. Lmao even.

Never mind. ER.

i’m in a bad mood please pray for my victims and their families

i get so gay off that guilt and shame