Perfection is always under construction. 😸💜😻

Don't ever push a loyal girl to the point where she'll no longer give a fuck about you. Because it takes a lot for a girl to give a fuck about you so it's kind of difficult for a girl to stop giving a fuck when she's invested so much of herself into someone. But keep in mind, just because it's difficult for a girl to stop giving a fuck, doesn't mean it isn't possible. Every girl has a limit on how much she can take and most of the time, you can go over that limit and she'll still love you too much to leave you, but if you push her far enough, then she'll just drop you and completely cut you off and once that happens, it will be extremely hard for her to start caring again. So be careful how you treat her & don't take those chances she gives you for granted. It isn't easy for her to do it. She doesn't want to leave you because she loves you with all of her heart, but it's just gotten to the point where she cannot take it anymore. She's fought for you, cried for you, gave you chance after chance, waited for you to change, even changed herself for you, dropped everything else for you, even cut some people off for you, forgave you every time you fucked her over hoping you wouldn't do it again. All those sacrifices she's made for you in hopes you'll start being better, but you didn't. So she's done. Really done. #unspokenthoughts💭

You Deserve To Remember How It Feels To Be Loved You deserve to wake up to beautiful messages every morning, messages that are heartfelt and genuine, messages that only someone who truly knows you can send and messages that let you know that you’re the first person on someone’s mind each and every day. You deserve to be loved for who you are, with your flaws, with your quirks, with your imperfections and you deserve to be with someone who doesn’t make you afraid of being yourself, you deserve to be with someone who sees all the parts of you and chooses to love them and chooses to stay. You deserve to remember how it feels to be loved and be truly cared for. You deserve to be with someone who makes you forget about every ignored message, every unanswered call and every person who couldn’t love you. You deserve to remember everything you forgot about love, you deserve someone who doesn’t get tired of reminding you what you mean to them and what they’d do for you. You deserve to have the love you always dreamed of, the kind of love that makes you want to be a better person, the kind of love that makes you happy and the kind of love that makes you feel safe because you got used to loving the ones who only introduced you to danger and heartbreak. You deserve to remember how special you really are and always have been before you loved people who made you feel like you’re ordinary. You deserve to fall in love with someone who doesn’t want to break your heart or play with it, you deserve someone who can remind you that love is not a game, that everyone who ever played you was the real loser and you deserve someone who’s terrified of losing you. You deserve to remember what it feels like to be with someone who’s afraid of losing you, someone who does their best to make sure that you’ll always remain in their life because it would be incomplete without you. You deserve to remember everything you knew about love before you fell in love with those who made you forget. You deserve to remember that you were never the problem, that you’ve always been too much for the wrong ones. You deserve to find someone who never gets enough of you and reminds you that there is no such thing as loving too much because they’re willing to love you just as much — and maybe more. 💜💜💜☝🏼️

An open letter to all the girls who think that they are a failure: Dear you reading this, You are beautiful in every inch. You are worth it. The fact that you are born in this world is already a big achievement. Imagine how many egg cells and sperm cells compete to form a human being, and it's you who emerged victorious. Insecurities would always be there, but the choice is in you not to let that rule your life. You are bound for greatness. You have a unique journey to take. When you compare yourself to others, you lose your identity. Failures happen in our life, but that doesn't mean you will forever fail. Every hardship is an opportunity for us to be stronger and to do better. Love your scars because they are reminders of far have you come already. There's no holding back. It's time to step up your game plan. Love. Forgive. Pray. Everything will be okay. Words by: Truth Slap

The deeper you are, the harder it becomes for you to find someone who wants to have a relationship with you. You can go out on a lot of dates but at some point the relationship fails to progress any further and that is mainly because of the intensity of your depth. Not every man is strong enough to handle a deep woman. Here’s why: 1. A deep woman asks deep questions. A deep woman will probe further into your life and ask questions that you may not be prepared to answer. Even on the first date, she will dig deeper and ask personal and philosophical questions – she will never enjoy a shallow conversation. 2. A deep woman is honest. Too honest – often blunt. A deep woman takes her integrity seriously and one thing she believes in is honesty. If you ask her anything, she will tell you the truth and she expects the same from you. 3. A deep woman knows what she wants. Or who she wants. A deep woman knows right away if she likes you and doesn’t need to date around or explore her other options to be sure of her feelings. Her heart only beats for a special few people and she knows them right away. 4. A deep woman wants a deep relationship. She wants long conversations about your life, she wants to hear stories about your past, she wants to understand your pain and she wants to add value to your life. She wants a real relationship that goes beyond going out and having fun. 5. A deep woman is not afraid of intimacy. She is not afraid of getting closer or risking getting hurt in the process. She doesn’t think it will entrap her freedom or make her vulnerable. Her depth and intimacy go hand in hand and she will always cherish the beauty of intimacy in relationships. 6. A deep woman sees through you. She can see who you really are and what makes you vulnerable. She is not the one to hold back from pointing out what she sees in you or how well she can read you. Even though it makes you uncomfortable, she wants you to know that she understands you and that you can be yourself around her. 7. A deep woman craves consistency. She gets turned off by inconsistency or flaky behavior. She desires a strong connection and a solid bond and she knows that consistency is the foundation of that bond. A deep woman will not participate in the dating games. 8. A deep woman is intense. She may be slightly intimidating because she brings intensity to everything she does. Her emotions are intense and so are her thoughts. She will never be indifferent about things that matter to her – not everyone is strong enough to handle her intensity. 9. A deep woman only knows how to love deeply. If you can’t love her deeply, she will walk away. She doesn’t know how to casually date someone she’s really into or be friends with someone she has feelings for. A deep woman knows when someone can’t meet her halfway and she will slowly detach herself from anyone who is not willing to give her the deep love she is looking for. 10. A deep woman won’t wait for you. She will not wait for you to make up your mind or watch you be hesitant about her. She is strong and passionate and will not waste her emotions on someone who doesn’t appreciate their depth. Even though she is looking for a special kind of love, a deep woman is not afraid of being on her own. Words by: Rania Naim Artwork by: Ashley Chanet

“Sometimes, him being the wrong man isn’t the real problem. The real problem is you deciding to give him a chance, knowing he’s the wrong man, thinking you can change him. "Never go into a relationship thinking you can change a man that has already shown you his true intentions are not what you want. In the end, he won’t change and you’ll end up frustrated, heartbroken, and alone wishing you had done things differently." -Mr. Amari Soul

20 realizations on my 20's 1. Some people aren't meant to stay. 2. You work so hard, but your salary isn't enough. 3. You want to be successful in life, but you don't know how to achieve it. 4. You have many ideals. 5. You don't fall in love easily. 6. You get hurt too much. 7. People will expect a lot from you. 8. You learn to let go of people who hurt you. 9. It's okay to cry. 10. People will have something to say whether you do good or bad. 11. You want to travel a lot, but you are broke af. 12. Swag no longer attract you. 13. Intelligence does. 14. Being egoistic won't help. 15. Forgiving is better. 16. The pressure is on in all aspects of your life. 17. Flirting is no longer your thing. 18. It's okay to be alone sometimes, to understand yourself more. 19. You becomes less sociable. 20. You don't trust people easily. Words by: Truth Slap

There will never be a perfect relationship. There will always be a time when shit happens in a relationship. You get mad. He gets mad. You're angry. He gets angry too. Couple fights which are rooted from jealousy, miscommunication and most of the time just petty things. Couple fights are actually vital in a relationship. It allows you to reflect if the relationship is still worth fighting. If you still love the person you have.If the person is still worth keeping. Conflicts in a relationship would often ignite the fire in your relationship. It'll give you an idea that , "Hey I can't imagine letting this person go". So both of you end up fixing the conflict and love goes on. ❤️ Words by: Truth Slap (at Kuwait City (sharq))

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Couples who aren't too show-off in social media last longer than those who constantly post everything. Well, it's expected because there'll be less intruders to the relationship. Less hypocrites. Less bullshit. You can always keep your relationship private, but never a secret. Words by: Truth Slap

"A strong woman knows that being strong is not an option for her, it's a necessity. "So, every day she wakes up and meets the world and all of its challenges head on. But sometimes, at the end of the day, when all is said and done and she finally closes the door, she cries. Not because she’s weak, but because it’s hard being strong, day after day, knowing that if you don’t do it, no one will. The soft cries that most will never hear slowly disappear as the new day comes and you rise once again to be the strong, confident woman you are." -Mr. Amari Soul #ReflectionsOfAMan

“Ladies…for just one moment, stop worrying about what everyone else thinks and do what makes you happy. “I realize that most of your time is spent tending to the wants and needs of your children, your career, and everyone else. You are constantly running, from before the sun rises until well after it sets, trying to hold all of the pieces to your life’s puzzle together. Ironically, somewhere through it all, you lose track of the most important piece…you. Then, when you try to take time for yourself, you get “grief for it” and in some instances, you even get accused of being “selfish.” Interestingly enough, the ones that say you are being “selfish” are usually the ones you give all of your attention to. So, your question to them should be, “Am I really being selfish or are you?” Never feel guilty for wanting to take time for yourself. After all you do for everyone else…you’ve earned it. Take time for you.” - Mr. Amari Soul (at Kuwait City (sharq))

“What am I to you?” I’ve been asking myself this for quite a long time now. I have been holding on to a relationship that’s not quite there. To a commitment that isn’t. To a love that doesn’t give it’s all. To a person who’s not all in. We should know better than to settle for someone who makes us question our value. No one should ever be able to have that kind of power over you. But the sad thing about these kind of people? They never come as evil. They would come as someone really sweet and caring. They tend to show interest in everything that you do. Funny how one can be so interested and yet not really invested. You see? There’s a difference between someone who tells you they miss you and someone who actually does something about it. There’s a thin line between one who finds time for you and one who makes time for you. There’s an unspoken rule about someone who’s invested making you as a priority rather than someone who just does the things that are convenient for him. These are the things that took me a few heartbreaks to realize. We all need to realize that being put first is not being demanding. It just comes with knowing your worth. So now, I guess the right question should be, “What am I to myself?” Then, the answer becomes clear. I’m worth more than an “I’ll try”. I deserve more than an “I miss you” text. I am more than just potential. I’m worth more than just an almost. You need to want me in your life enough to actually do something to make sure I’m there. Until then, I’m perfectly fine being without someone who doesn’t see the keeper that I truly am. By Blabbermouth on Duty Artwork by Marie Fox

Holidays!.😍 BERMONTHS..😊 #exciting (at Al Mahbulah, Al 'Āşimah, Kuwait)

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