dick grayson fan first and a person second

Tim and dick have different brands of foot in mouth disease because tim is genuinely clueless and self centered when he says stuff like "your parents death was the most traumatizing thing to happen to me" or complains about how hard it is to lie to your parents to orphans, but dick is 100 percent aware of what he's doing when he says stuff like "you think your dad would put up with you like I do" and throws accessibility or lack thereof in people's faces or brings up Roy's past addiction in arguments, he just CHOOSES to say that

Literally Bruce would enjoy being Tiger’s father in law and they would sit silently but peaceably in rooms together both manspreading

dick and bruce's relationship is everything though. they're father and son but also work besties but also the unbearable micromanaging boss and the assistant who knows too much to be fired but also if siblings could be bitterly divorced but also holding a marriage together for the sake of the kids but also haunting each other's narratives

comics industry so miserable for women that a man putting his hand under a woman's shirt in the workplace with "flirty" intent does not even rank in the top 10 worst things men have done to her. not unexpected but still fucking awful. and her #1 is still a guy in the industry. ok. we have to start running these men over in cars

i fear that we have to care about things men do to women that aren't the worst events of a woman's life.

damian and bruce in a competition to see who knocks dick up first, but when dick gets pregnant he refuses to let them test 🥰 the baby will be a wayne anyway, so who cares?

the most obnoxious thing is that they would be pretending that they weren't in competition. they'd be ignoring each other while both on dick's (proverbial) lap, like a pair of jealous cats. and like cats, they don't care that dick's lap is currently occupied—by a baby bump

my fav relationship ship dynamic is where it doesn't matter if you call it platonic or romantic or queerplatonic because they always act the same in every type of relationship. and the way they act? fucking weird.

honestly im very tired of peoples inability to recognize stereotypes that stem from sax rohmer novels i think white people especially owe it to asian people to do a cursory reading of the premise of fu manchu novels and read the characters are associated with them just so they can get their heads out of their asses and stop blindly reading fu manchu and fah lo suee reskins without any critical thought

like an asian daughter trying to get away from her evil dad or trying to usurp her father with the help of white men is a anti asian stereotype i need yall to know that. the daughter who is actually good and is just a helpless victim of her father and she needs help from a white man to either get away or kill her father is a racist stereotype. Id take it a step further and say that even if its not a white man getting help from any outside force to usurp or run from her father is in fact racist. An asian woman falling in love with a white man and that white man basically making her realize that she shouldn't be following her father is racist it comes from Daughter of the Dragon. It comes from Sax Rohmer. We need to recognize that its a thing. We need to be critical of how we talk about characters that fall into that trope

if you reblog anything from me I wish it were this. the anti asian stereotypes from sax rohmer novels are so prevalent in literally everything its difficult to find anything with Asian people that doesnt have at least a few. especially comics