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It’s hard for me to personally believe this was non-intentional, or even downright spite-fueled, since aside from the very first instance that made me personally uncomfortable with her, I had her blocked (and she admitted that she was aware of this to a third party). My text post that “inspired” her to make a design was untagged, used abbreviation so it wouldn’t have shown up in search, and was not reblogged, so she would have had to check my blog to see it. She created a new tumblr to follow my side blog and directly block evaded which honestly is what upset me the most, especially since i made it very clear that my side blog was me when I went back to it. Even if this was simply carelessness or selfishness and she genuinely had no ill will, the audacity to block evade and “draw inspiration” from someone who clearly was uncomfortable with her doing so is callous at best and malicious at worst. I’m finding less and less reason to believe her apologies are sincere since they only appear after she’s been “caught” and follow a trend of being self-flagellating and pity-mongering lip service, attempts to weasel out of owning her actions. On top of that, she continues to behave in exactly the same way, over and over again, and apologies without a change in action are less than useless to the people she’s used.

It’s hard for me to personally believe this was non-intentional, or even downright spite-fueled, since aside from the very first instance that made me personally uncomfortable with her, I had her blocked (and she admitted that she was aware of this to a third party). My text post that “inspired” her to make a design was untagged, used abbreviation so it wouldn’t have shown up in search, and was not reblogged, so she would have had to check my blog to see it. She created a new tumblr to follow my side blog and directly block evaded which honestly is what upset me the most, especially since i made it very clear that my side blog was me when I went back to it. Even if this was simply carelessness or selfishness and she genuinely had no ill will, the audacity to block evade and “draw inspiration” from someone who clearly was uncomfortable with her doing so is callous at best and malicious at worst. I’m finding less and less reason to believe her apologies are sincere since they only appear after she’s been “caught” and follow a trend of being self-flagellating and pity-mongering lip service, attempts to weasel out of owning her actions. On top of that, she continues to behave in exactly the same way, over and over again, and apologies without a change in action are less than useless to the people she’s used.

apologies are meaningless if they only serve to make you feel better about the shit you’re gonna continue to do. there’s no get-out-of-consequences free card, particularly when an apology demonstrates not only that you’re trying to make yourself the victim, but that you don’t fully understand the scope of your actions.

people have been really fucking hurt by this. they feel like they can’t even post shit in the tag or make neo content at all without it being at risk and that’s so… unnecessary. like just don’t steal people’s shit?? if you’re inspired by something then cite it, promote the content, don’t just say “oh i wouldn’t copy someone, that’s gross” and then turn around and copy some 85% of something and call it good.

like i’m most familiar w illya’s situation and it’s such bullshit?? he’s been through so much shit from the tag over the years and now this?? after everything??? jfc. i’ve had it, dude. any way you slice it, this is malicious.

It’s hard for me to personally believe this was non-intentional, or even downright spite-fueled, since aside from the very first instance that made me personally uncomfortable with her, I had her blocked (and she admitted that she was aware of this to a third party). My text post that “inspired” her to make a design was untagged, used abbreviation so it wouldn’t have shown up in search, and was not reblogged, so she would have had to check my blog to see it. She created a new tumblr to follow my side blog and directly block evaded which honestly is what upset me the most, especially since i made it very clear that my side blog was me when I went back to it. Even if this was simply carelessness or selfishness and she genuinely had no ill will, the audacity to block evade and “draw inspiration” from someone who clearly was uncomfortable with her doing so is callous at best and malicious at worst. I’m finding less and less reason to believe her apologies are sincere since they only appear after she’s been “caught” and follow a trend of being self-flagellating and pity-mongering lip service, attempts to weasel out of owning her actions. On top of that, she continues to behave in exactly the same way, over and over again, and apologies without a change in action are less than useless to the people she’s used.