Be Happy

people say “if you don’t lower your standards, you’re gonna end up spending your whole life alone!” like being a healthy, happy, financially independent single adult is actually worse than being stuck in an abusive and/or emotionally unfulfilling relationship with someone who isn’t willing/able to meet your needs. like no offense, but I think I’m gonna choose to be happy rather than throwing myself into a relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship. 

A better situation

A healthier, more peaceful, positive situation.

i miss how interested you were in me

Enamórate de un hombre que te ayude a orar cuando no tengas ganas. Enamórate de un hombre que se arrodille a buscar la presencia de Dios. Enamórate de un hombre que te respete y te espere hasta el matrimonio. Enamórate de un hombre que sea fiel y no busque su propio beneficio. Enamórate de un hombre de Dios.

Stop beating yourself up. You’re a work in progress, which means you get there a little bit at a time not all at once.