nakedpastor

One of the hardest things about deconstruction is finding safe people to support you through it.

Missionary is My Favorite

Did you know that even though many women felt embarrassed that this is true because it has the reputation of being old fashioned, too orthodox, and uninteresting... many surveys reveal that the favorite position for women with a man is missionary?

There are many reasons, but mainly it's the full body press, the eye contact, achieving the O, and the feeling of intimate connection.

The moral of the story is... do what you enjoy. Ask for what you enjoy. Do what brings you pleasure. Without shame. Without worrying about what's supposed to be done or what's cool or what's been displayed on screen.

You have your own preferences.

Honor them.

Appreciate them.

Enjoy them.

Might have worked for a while.

This is a bit of an inside joke.

There's an experiment where women ask their husbands or boyfriends how many times they thought of the Roman Empire today.

They are shocked that most of them think about it quite often, and favourably.

This is for all the times you consented even though you weren't in the mood and you only wish that he was a little more sensitive to that.

And a little more emotionally aware and caring of you and your feelings.

Who here relates?

The other day when I shared about how love is love and all are included, someone said Heaven is a gated community.

In other words, only the privileged are allowed in.

Which reveals a profound ignorance about love.

NakedPastor's slogan used to be "graffiti artist on the walls of religion".