Whether or not somebody has any interest in or inclination towards polyamory and whether or not somebody is questioning their sexuality, I think it's worth it for everybody to spend some time deconstructing the expected outline of a straight, monogamous relationship and ask themselves what reasonable boundaries look like in a romantic connection built on trust and unpossessive love, not primarily but not insignificantly because this will prevent videos from popping up on my Instagram feed of aggressively heterosexual women saying things like "it's cheating if I work out with a guy who isn't my husband"













