MY blog not yours! Let this sink in!

You guys got me a looot of “confession” and i can tell ya, you are 99% right! ...but this one caught my eye:

First: I had to black out all personal information's....which is just sad because IF you wanna post something about SOMEONE else, you should be smart enough to black out every personal detail.

Sec.: what the heck is WRONG with you guys? Like really. The hobby is all about DOLLS, just that, dolls but you guys are feeling to make some witch hunts? Really? That’s pathetic and really weak.

Just think about YOU for a while, would YOU like to see a post about your account (for a damn HOBBY, it is not like the person Killed somebody or anything)? No, i don’t think so. If you tell me: YES, i would GLADLY make a damn stupid “confession” about your account just PM me! But YOU, who posted this, and the one who thought that this behavior is OK and posted it on the stupid “confession” blog are really the worst kinda peeps, because YOU guys think online means: i can hurt people just out of fun!

Oh and another thing: why i think this person is not worthy for the online world:

You are such a weak person that you don’t even write your OWN name, you posted it Anonymously because YOU don’t wanna be called out for such a pitiful and hatred behavior!

No i did not google those persons because I think this is not an exceptional behavior and i don’t think this should be on ANY blog (if this is not the person writing about her own blog of course).

People should wake up a bit, this is JUST A HOBBY, and calling people out is BULLYING and messed up! STOP THAT! This is really NOT OKAY!!!! And yes, i asked the person who gave me the screenshot for the link and i REPORTED those “confessions”!

Because: I say NO to bullying! And everyone who is on my side:

Just a very short one:

Wait really? I still have 1 Volks doll and i used the Japan Volks website to order her....it wasn’t hard at all. Just look what they have, put it in your basket and follow the steps. If a doll isn’t listed you can’t get it. They than asked you if you want an additional treatment (like seam lines sanding and so on) with the YEN price and that’s it...click yes or no....and BAM pay with paypal.

Yes it is not as easy as some Korean (for example) websites because Volks is mainly bought from Japanese people ya, but it is not that confusing.

Next:

Sadly this hobby is all about the pseudo “FAME” because let’s be honest, BJD people even with high follower counts are NOT famous. Actually outside the hobby they are nothing, normal people like everybody else. So everybody is equal and should be treated the same way!

And last:

Absolutely right. And this is why I (and clearly other peeps as well) know that this hobby will not survive very long.

That’s it,

like always: you don’t like my opinion?

Man i don’t care, go and bore somebody else with your one and only opinion because this is my blog and you can post thinks on yours (plus i know you have zero humor so ya, go)

Just because i need a bjd break here.

Okay again, it is a bento which means it is in fact COLD for 76$...so this is a no for me. Sry but that’s not really much meat (for westerners at least) and i had a lot of bento boxes in japan and i can say: a LOT of YT reviews are good but they taste okay, not more.

And this one:

Because i get a lot of “Why” questions, WHY did i start to collect dolls, why did i ended it, why why why.

Okay first of all, my girlfriend back in the time collected BJD’s and Azone dolls. That’s when i got my first doll as well (just as a compensation -work and stuff). And after some years, peeps just gotten more and more stupid and angry and doesn’t see those “DOLLS”, because that’s what they are, DOLLS, as they are, REALLY are,  (which, i know sry to tell ya, is bullsh**!) just DOLLS.

You are collecting DOLLS, you take them and change them as you want, it doesn’t matter what you feel for them, at the end it is just a piece of plastic (Resin= a solid synthetic organic polymer used as the basis of plastics, adhesives, varnishes, or other products. -->for those who doesn’t know it!) and nobody else CARES about the piece of plastic you care about.

I still have 2 dolls, because i want to but i don’t want to buy more. Why? Because i have a Family to take care of and i changed my hobbies, easy isn’t it?.

My now wive collect other things she cares about but she still knows it is HERS not anybody else who cares about these things.

So at the end, if you are a kiddo, child or just ignorant (i don’t care which you are), the next time you feel a disagreement or maybe personal addressed, i can promise you: you are NOT, just think about yourself and your doll and if somebody else does not agree with you: so be IT! He\She\It doesn’t have to you are just fighting over a piece of plastic!

I know sentimental bla bla i get it, when i was younger i thought same-ish but when you grow up you will figure out what is really important in life ->hint: not your dolls!

Just let other peeps do what EVER they want it is not your life and your decision, you don’t have to fight on those stupid “confession” blogs because we all know peeps are just asshol* on there and maybe some of them have a difficult and boring RL we will never know because in RL we would NEVER want to talk or even sit next to such a stupid person.

Just as a tip

And another thing, yes they are creation of “artists” but clothes, paintings and many other things as well, that does not mean YOU have to fight for the one you are obsessed with (which you can tell, if you are fighting for them and being rude (or WORSE) to others you are clearly overstepping a BIG line here!!!!!!!). Just focus on yourself and not on others.

Just a very Quick one (i rl have to work this weekend)

Q: You are a dude?

A: No i am male.

Q: Are you gay?

A: no

Q: What else do you collect and where can i see pictures?

A: Figures mostly. Atm. i post them on my FB only (friends only sry)

Q: What do you think about the Disney drama?

A: I had to ask all females around me what you mean, you mean the #notmyariel right?

It is Disney, my kids will watch it and i don’t really care. but i would love to see more Espanish \ Mexican people in movies, but i guess people just love the drama about “black” vs. “white” too much. Nah but i don’t care much about Disney.

Q: What’s about events? Do you go to some?

A: like cons? Ya last year SDCC and this year as well.

Let’s just start:

Maybe just don’t care? I don’t see why, if you can’t “stand” her\his doll aesthetic, you should follow or what ever this person?!

And next:

Com’on if you don’t like somebody else's doll...just shut up it is not YOUR doll so let them be. Not everybody has the same taste (luckily!)

And next up:

First: nobody HAS to buy her\his doll\s. If this doll\head or whatever is that expensive just look away. Personal: i wouldn’t buy such an expensive doll (it was MSD size so ya no), if she\he lost money from the last order and wanna get some of this money back NOW...that’s a big no no for me as well but all in all, i don’t really like her\his doll so good for me. I can pay something important with this money now!

And this one:

What? Really? I have to check that. For us it seems bigger so ya don’t crash our impression!

Almost done:

“girl”-crush? so WTF does that means? You are a girl and has some kinda feelings about somebody else who seems to be a girl as well? So you just have a crush but you feel like you have to priorities it? Or what? Maybe i am just toooo old for those terms\ Synonyms...

And last one:

To be honest, if i would be shocked when looking at my credit card bill...i would insta knew that i have, in fact, a problem. Sry but that’s a big no for me. But maybe this person just don’t have a family or something i don’t know...

Like always: if you don’t like my personal opinion: than 1: you are WRONG here, 2: You should leave because i certainly don’t care about your opinion (if i would read your blog!)

For those who can not read, or are just one of those peeps who think “Internet means i can be an A*Hole to others:

I deleted the “anonymous” button, why? Because IF you wanna tell me something you are free to do so, but be aware that if you are just a stupid person who just wanna be mean or annoying i will def. post your comment here in the OPEN world for others to see how you really are.

Lucky me i sometimes (1 out of like 13 messages) get a message- attacking me as a person even tho they know zero about me or this blog of course - and to be honest i think it is not fair that you, who read this blog and actually CAN understand the meaning of: Having your OWN opinion on something\someone and FUN, can not read those “peoples” messages because they are anonymous and maybe you just wanna block them like me as well.

This is mind, sry but you can now ask me only normal messages no anonymous anymore. Still, if you want my opinion or fun blog you can post them here as a message and i will still say “anonymous”, but i know you guys already do so, so this message is mainly for those view who cannot really read, are a*holes because “INTERNEEEET” or just stupid overall.

Yay long time no see.

Let’s get right into it:

If an order of something that small takes a company (even a small company or whatever) such a long time, i would get my money back. Easy. And yes, lies are an absolute no go.

Next one:

Luckily YOU don’t have kids because if, you would now: this is not even slightly funny!

And this one:

*Had to google and was disappointed* BORING and childish great (yes it is not my tast, but maybe yours?!)...looks like somebody is still loving to play dollhouse. (For me BJD are for esthetic pictures, like models and not playing doll\dollhouse with them so NOPE! State: my personal Opinion and maybe i am not the guy to play with dollhouse i don’t know)

And this one:

This person created the doll, if it kinda looks like a Pokemon so be it. IF you are THAT jealous about this person getting money out if what he made by hand....MAN \ WOMAN \ THING you are in the FALSE hobby.

And last one:

IF this person is that good in copying let her be. GOSH like how jelly peeps in this hobby are against somebody else....man...

That’s it for today.

If you don’t like what i have to say: GOOD for you i guess, just make a post on your OWN blog but don’t bore me with it.

Let’s start:

Hellloooo? First up: NO, never do that. And sec. i do get why they\ he\ she \it did this....sry ...*feels like stalking*

And next:

Good for ya. RL is in fact, i know some of you don’t wanna hear that, much more important (than a hobby).

And next one:

“Lately”? It’s the thing for years now. Like how else would you explain those confession blogs?

Next one:

First: I don’t even wanna mentioned what i think about peeps like you. Sec.: It is not your doll anymore. And third: I don’t like you (and i can tell that even tho i don’t really know you but if you have such a hate against another doll owner who loves HIS\HER\ ITs doll like this...i really don’t give a damn flying sh** about you!)

And next up:

Yup guys, USE it-> it has a reason it exists.

And last one:

Ohm...what? I hope this is a joke because i would NEVER buy a stupid doll dress or whatever for that much money...like really never. It would be much more than i would spend on my own clothing....so wtf....no a big no from me.

That’s it, like always: you don’t like MY personal opinion? Great good for you, take a cookie and leave.

Okay another round:

Anonymous:

Why do you never really post something about recasts\ confessions?

Com’on because it is (FACT) stupid. We ALL heard enough of it, it is ALWAYS the same, we ALL know it is just a thing to get peeps to read and come to your blog. So no, i will not go into this topic. Thanks.

Anonymous:

What do you think about the waiting time for legit dolls? How many dolls do you actually have?

To be honest, i have 3 BJD’s, sold all others and i can now buy things i REALLY need or spend time with. Having this money makes me, lets say... more happy, but i guess everybody is different. And about the waiting-time thing, they take their time.

Anonymous:

Is there anybody in this hobby you really hate? Or getting annoyed with?

I don’t get annoyed of peeps, because “if” i would care about them which i don’t. It is easy (for me): I don’t know those peeps online (and i DON’T wanna know them!!) how can i care about them? Right i can’t! I have plenty of friends(RL stuff you know?) i care about who accept things i do my way and if somebody doesn’t like me online (because he\she\it can’t even know me) i don’t care. Easy.

Anonymous:

If you are not really into BJd’s anymore why are you still here?

Because i can. I could even go and be a part of WOW, even tho i don’t play it...crazy world we are living in right?!

That’s it for today, like always: you don’t like MY personal opinion? Great for you, make a post on your OWN blog because i don’t care.

Or as i call it: WTF is WRONG with you Japan?

This time:

Which is kinda weird itself...of course you can find pervs everywhere but okay...let’s start:

ohm okay..to be honest, top and bottom is an absolute NO GO. There is no “TOP” or “BOTTOM” here, all of this is equal stupid and disgusting to me.

And to continue, some peeps twittered back, with things happened \ still happen to them on a Japanese train:

To be honest, yes Japan is weird and they have a lot of pervs but as long as Japan still keep up those “girl school uniform”(and other kinky uniform rules) behavior i don’t see this will change. Of course it looks kinda cute for some (not for me) but you see what those girls have to be aware of and sometimes fear.

I don’t think a girl should face something like this...

Let’s start with this one:

and you will get a lot of “love” for this post i guess....i personally think that the most important thing is, that YOU as the doll owner love your doll but okay...

Next:

But you DO know that make up stuff is different to BJD face-up stuff right? I really hope so...and no, i wouldn’t be interested of seeing this, i don’t watch that kinda YT stuff!

And next one:

If you don’t like them, don’t look \ follow or whatever them...it should be so easy...but...ya...

And this one:

Like really who? should i remember them? No of course not some peeps coming and some are going that's how life works.

And next one, i know i don’t wanna say anything about “recasts” and i will def. not but it was funny to read:

First up: where did you get THOSE numbers? 100 minifees in a month...sure...you don’t just made stupid things up to make a recasts post...sry but for real now: Who does even like FL anymore? I don’t so i don’t care to see them anymore or look up what they have made the last event-ish time....

And last one:

she can “want” what every she thinks, it is her doll. I don’t care about her doll so i won’t buy it and to be honest, for 700$ i could buy soooo much better things than a stupid MSD doll (jup just be honest here!)

That’s it for today. Like always: if you don’t like MY personal opinion: go away and make a post on your own blog\tumblr or wherever about it because i certainly don’t care.

Just a very short one...with nice things and annoying things.

okay...ya...it is...don’t see why somebody should make a “confession” out of it but ya....great. Love your work and so on.

Next:

Another okay post...great for you keep going.

And this one:

uhhhh *lol* ...you will get some hate for that confession ....be aware...

Like always, if you don’t like my PERSONAL opinion: go and make a blog about it on your blog! I will def. NOT gonna read it (not really sorry), but don’t bother me with your “nice comment” (hope those peeps can read...)

Everybody else:

Anonymous: What do you think about Japan? You ever visit Japan? Would you want to live in Japan?

Yes, a view times...let’s start with positive stuff:

Clean, Japan is just very VERY clean. Even with the lack of trashcans. It is kinda easy to get around (trains are confusing when you have to take them somewhere the first time, you will need help to figure out what to do!). Eating: good, but you have to wait in lines (all the best\new\trendy places have loooong waiting lines!) If you find a place with nobody really inside...i wouldn’t eat there...that’s a tip a friend gave me (he is living in Japan since 2004).

Friendly peeps: they are friendly...they will help you even if they don’t understand English very well. Service: perfect. Don’t give them tip money...they will give it back to ya! In a lot of restaurants you have a button for the service which is nice.

Convenient stores: 7 eleven and other shops are great. Love them. You will ALWAYS find one near you. Nature: is good. If you have allergies you will have a pretty hard time around spring and summer...believe me...take your pills with ya.

Food: good. I personally don’t like raw stuff...sushi is kinda okay but they really have a lot of raw stuff (chicken...i would never try this! NEVER). But overall food itself taste good.

Trains:IF you made it to a train, it will 100% punctual and fast which is perfect.

Clothing: you can (of course) wear cute “kawaii” things or whatever...but most likely on conventions or on meeting...i don’t know if that’s a good thing or not because i am not into that kinda stuff.

You have 4 seasons and special things to get in those seasons. Which is nice...but to be hones in Europe you will have this as well....so...ya...

And now some BAD things:

People: they SAY yes to everything but they don’t want to...which sucks. I don’t like peeps who are just saying yes to everything but don’t wanna do it just because they are ashamed of saying no. I don’t think this behavior should exist. Another thing is: Peeps WILL judge you! They will trust me! It can be about the way you are dressing (like in summer, if you show to much skin) or just because you are a “Gaijin” (a not Japanese person\outside). It sucks but it is how it is. If you do something (like i know a lot of american’s don’t take off their shoes before entering a house) they will look at you...in a not so nice way...like they wanna tell you that THIS behavior is not at all allowed here!

Trains: they are crowded....like hell...so be aware. Plus it can happen that (it CAN) that some perv will grab you somewhere... Yes don’t use the rush hour trains i know but it feels like every time is some sorta rush hour.

Working: my friend is working in Japan for a loooong time now, and he is ALWAYS late...like i know when he should get OFF but he will add like 1-2 hours because the company want him to do so (and everyone else) which is just WRONG in my mind. Work is work but coming home very late (after driving home and stuff) and getting to work very early in the morning ...you just don’t have a real life anymore...(he is now working somewhere else for a foreign company with normal hours and is feeling much better btw.).

I know in America you will have your waiter come to ya like 100+ times...”do you want some water or whatever”...i know it is nice but i don’t personal like that...i wanna eat in piece...just a little add on.

Food (yup on both sides): not only the raw stuff, you will never really know: is it vegetarian? What is really inside the dish(ingredient)....so if you are on a specific diet....be aware..

Just some good things and bad things...MY opinion of course and what i experienced so far.

And If i ever wanted \want to live in japan: NO. Sry but absolute no for me. I like Japan, it’s a great country but i would miss so much...in Europe you can travel and get all those cultures and architectures...It doesn’t take long to travel from country to country...even if i wanna fly to my family in the US it wouldn’t take a lot of time which is perfect. So no, i would not wanna live in Japan.

Anonymous: What are BJD’s for you??

Dolls made of Two component plastic aka. resin. They are just DOLLS and everybody who put like 80-90% feelings in a doll is strange to me because they are not a living thing! They are dolls, just dolls. Expensive dolls (if you don’t buy recasts at least) but it is just a hobby.

Anonymous: Would you say you are more likely a pro-artist\neutral or something else?

I collect THINGS, not living things (and i collect more other things than BJD’s) and i am an adult with a normal job a family and so on...so short:

I am not a child or teen i don’t F-ing need a stupid “TITLE” for one of my freaking hobbies!

Anonymous: What do you think of the community itself?

Like i don’t even care how stupid and pathetic 80%+ are. Those pathetic peeps are already non-existing to me because my life is worth so much i don’t need stupid people in it. Of course not all the time, back like 3+ years ago it was more like:

but now...i don’t care about the BJD community anymore. Maybe the BJD hobby will die out someday if all those peeps are just keep on fighting we will see.

Anonymous: Are BJD really “Art”?

Hm...yes, also is fashion ( we ALL have copies at home btw.and no ONE cares, shoes “like” converse or other brand-ripp offs from a local store, bags who look like “high end fashion brands) and so on) and stuff. Some are more worth some less. Easy.

Oh and if you are one of those: BUT this is something TOTALLY different...just to tell you: your are WRONG! ALL big brands have somebody behind it(an “Artist”), a crew, factory, families they have to pay\ need the money for living. So if you feel like hating recasts peeps(because you love to do so in this hobby), and you know you have like 99% a fake-ish brand at home! Sry to tell you. I love my REAL converse but i see like 99% fake shoes around, do you think i’m being an annoying little teen, go to this person and tell them how stupid and ignorant they are? That they are WRONG and calling them names?

No! Because i am an adult and i know how RL is!Oh and i love to repeat myself: it is JUST a hobby, fighting like children over a stupid hobby...pathetic. And i will not fight with somebody who thinks that i am wrong because i am not. But they’ll figure that out someday...maybe...when they have to grow up ...or when somebody will kick their a**.

Like always: you don’t like MY personal opinion? Great, make a post on your OWN blog about it.

Let’s get right into it:

Doll ARE scary, you can’t deny that. Some peeps even have a phobia (i personally know 2 of them), it is called: Pediophobia! And if somebody think\feel this way it is absolutly OKAY. Maybe they just went from blog to blog and found yours and BAM just get over it! Just don’t make a fuss out of it.

And next:

What? Just no!

Next please:

Don’t u DARE to say DC make “ugly” sculpts! Like WTF, 99% of dolls are not human-like correct (of course not) they are DOLLS and everyone has a different taste!

And this one:

Okay....

And last one:

Hm...i buy what i want. If i think it is nice i buy it! I even ...and now you will be “shocked” buy sec. hand clothing for MYSELF!

Crazy i know....why should my dolls always get new fabrics and i don’t? Com’on guys, really!

Like always: you don’t agree with me and MY personal opinion? Good just make a blog somewhere else about it.

Yap i said 99%...okay maybe 98%, i know what a surprise, sometimes i can be nice as well. Or maybe we should call it: nice-ish.

To be honest, i get the opposite. I always have to loosen them up. Soooo maybe you have the wrong strings (some strings are just too loose from the beginning) or just watch some YT vids about stringing.

Neext:

If the doll stinks like hell sometimes i guess they do if you get one from a smoke-ish home, you can always TALK to the seller OR use PayPal protection (1. ship it back(+ get all of your money back of course), 2. get some money back.). But ya i agree.

And next one:

What where? Like for real, last giveaway it was NO F-ing surprise that the BEST “members” aka. friends got it....so nope i will not do and HELP ANY giveaways anymore, because they most likely (like 100%) just wanna have MORE likes and subscriptions to their channels.

And this one:

First of all, i am always (and truly) sry to read that somebody got sexually harassed and had to quit the job...because those assh*** should be punished but the other thing...if i don’t have some money on the side...i wouldn’t buy any doll with layaway option!

So F U perverted assh*** and i hope this person will find a new job soon! You can do it!

And last one:

Hell why just a freaking body? Com’on i want a complete DOLL with clothing, wig, eyes and a faceup + shipping for 150$....oh wait we are not in: what would you wish for....oh DAMN...