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To my friends on the spectrum, let me explain to you an unspoken social rule that possibly nobody has ever explained to you before

If a neurotypical asks you, “What game are you playing?” they’re not asking you to describe the game.

They’re asking you if they can play too.

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I didn’t realize, even thought it took me almost three decades to learn this, that this was such a paradigm changing realization until we had our conversation today.

But it really really is. One of the most bewildering realizations I’ve had is most people don’t talk to learn things unless its related to work or directly towards their own hobbies, all the words and questions are bonding questions if done socially. They are “lets make friends” questions.

So if I answer their question without an opportunity for the person asking the question to give a response or to join in somehow, the asker feels alienated and starts shutting down.

Example: what are you reading?

True answer but not what they’re looking for: Title of book

Best answer for social scenarios where I want to retain/create friendship: This book is about x and y but it has z that i know u have an interest in too.

Example: what are you doing?

True answer but not: drawing

Best answer for friends: I’m drawing but would u like company while I’m working?

And sometimes frankly I’m not in a headspace where I can process people so the answer is something like, “I would like to do something in a day or later, do you want to plan something?”

Tldr: communication is wierd

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HOLY

SHIT

that explains so fucking much thank you

(why the fuck do neurotypicals never just day what they mean ie hey this show looks cool mind if I join you)

bonehandledknife

Further annoying?

They don’t realize that’s what they’re asking and they just feel rejected and go away. So you can’t even ask them what you did wrong because they can’t even put a finger on why they feel the way they do they just know you made them feel bad for some undefined reason.

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What’s messed up about this is that we are the ones that communicate explicitly and simply and are pathologized for it, while allistics literally expect us to READ THEIR FUCKING MINDS and that’s normal? How even is that reasonable? How is it we are the ones that society thinks are mentally ill?

Uhg.

Just so… for those of you who have to hide your autism, this is a great thing to keep in mind.

How People View INFPs vs. How INFPS Actually Are

What people think INFPs are like: Precious sweethearts who are -so- emotional and cry about -everything- all the time.

What INFPs are actually like: Warriors that are stuck dreaming about the ways they want to help and rescue the people they love, and win love in return. They want the world to be like the fictional one they have in their head and if they are too overwhelmed by life's problems they want to be -alone-, even away from their closest friends, to be upset and jaded at the world.

How people think INFPs socialize: When they see their friends, they weep for joy because it's so beautiful, and they just can't take the sheer beauty of the friendship.

How INFPs -actually- socialize: Most of their social interactions happen with the version of you they have in their head.

How often people think INFPs cry: Everytime the sun sets. Everytime the icing on their cupcake is perfect. Everytime they walk in the park. Everytime the wind blows. Everytime...

How often INFPs actually cry: When something has come along to truly, truly break their heart. Which is actually hard to do. When everything that they have desired in life begins to fall apart and they feel their dreams crumbling. When they realize they don't know what to do, to go back to where they were before. When they're watching a sad movie/reading a sad book.

How easy people think it is to befriend an INFP: Be a person. Congrats you're their friend.

How easy it -actually- is to befriend an INFP: It isn't. You may consider them -your- friend, but they don't consider you the same. You're not really their friend until you prove that you and they share a true kindred link.

What people think INFPs dream about: Being rescued by a knight in shining armor.

What INFPs actually dream about: Being a knight in shining armor, rescuing.

What people think annoys an INFP: Nothing.

What actually annoys an INFP: Loads of stuff, including MBTI posts that type us as crybaby cinnamon rolls. Please stop. It's humiliating. Thanks.

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mbti as ways they say “i love you”

(x)

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“stay over”

“you might like this”

“i was just in the neighborhood”

estp

“i want you to be happy”

“you look like you could use a hug”

“i’ll wait”

isfp

"you didn’t have to ask”

“i’ll meet you halfway”

“i’ll be here when you’re ready”

esfp

“i saw this and thought of you”

“i’m worried about you”

“i like your laugh”

istj

“don’t worry about me”

“i’m proud of you”

“that’s okay, i bought two”

estj

“you should take a break - you work too hard”

“take my jacket, it’s cold outside”

“you’re important too”

isfj

“i made this for you”

“we can share”

“i don’t mind”

esfj

“it reminded me of you”

“i made your favourite”

“i want you to have this”

infp

“listen to this song - it reminded me of you”

“i’m happy you’re here”

“i saved you a piece”

enfp

“well what do you want to do?”

“i picked these for you”

“stay there, i’ll come get you”

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“you dont have to say anything”

“i’ll help you study”

“i noticed”

enfj

“do you need any help with that?”

“call me if you need anything”

“it’s no bother”

intp

“i’ll do it for you”

“i really want your opinion on something”

“wow”

entp

“you can have the last slice”

“what do you want to watch?”

“do you want to come too?”

intj

“is there anything i can do to help?”

“it’s okay, i couldn’t sleep anyways”

“take mine”

entj

“i appreciate what you do for me”

“you just made my day”

“we’ll figure it out”

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Signs You're a Bad Listener

you interupt people or try to finish their sentences for them

you make the conversation about yourself (you immediately bring up your own examples when someone talks about a personal issue)

you take everything personally (instead of listening to what the person is saying, you think about how what they’re saying relates to you)

people grow visibly quiet or annoyed with you as the conversation goes on

people often say “ok whatever” or “forget it” when they’re talking to you

people stop confiding in you

you attend to other things when someone’s speaking (checking your phone, looking at the art on the walls etc.)

you plan how you’re gonna respond while someone’s speaking instead of listening to what they’re saying

you hurry people along (“ok and?”, “get to the point”)

you change the subject before the other person is done talking about it

you’re quick to dismiss people or shut down their ideas

sarcasm is usually your first response

you’re innattentive to non-verbal cues (you don’t make eye contact, or notice facial expressions and body language in general)

you regularly give unsolicited advice (if you paid attention to non-verbal cues, you’d know when someone wants you to give them your opinion vs. when they just need to vent)

you rarely ask people questions

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Rainbow Coast by Chris Zielecki \\ MFL

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“Hot Chocolate”

by Cleonique Hilsaca

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Creative Individuals

1. Get bored easily

2. Have busy minds

3. Like to take risks

4. Are driven by their intuition

5. Are willing to make mistakes

6. Question the rules

7. Are independent thinkers

8. Are viewed as being a bit eccentric

9. Frequently change their mind.

10. Dream big.

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You are art.

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INFP Confession #1421

Empty Arms

I suffer from empty arms. Empty arms is an affliction of the mind, which is akin to loneliness, but any sufferer will tell you it’s a slightly different feeling. Most of the time, you’re happy in your solitary state. At others, feelings of confusion and sadness will wash over you when you least expect it. It will feel as though your arms have grown in size, the space between your right arm and your left is inexplicably larger and they feel so clumsy and cumbersome. You can’t plan when you’ll feel it. Sometimes it will be when you’re lying awake in bed past midnight, walking out of a restaurant by yourself with the sultry smell of garlic filling the evening air, on a cold bright winter’s morning in January when snow covers the ground or when you’re at a concert alone in the crowd. The sensation is confusing, often comparable to a melting pot of the hopeless desire to hold someone, anyone in your arms and the sad acknowledgement that your shyness, cold exterior and crippling self doubt may stop you from ever finding someone. If out with friends when these feelings arise, your farewell hugs will linger longer than usual. You know you shouldn’t grasp your friend so hard, but just being held, the sensation of being appreciated, even if for one moment, is all too much to contend with. You wait for the day you when will walk out of restaurants being able to hold someone’s hand, the day when someone will fall asleep in your arms, the day when you’re drunk in the back of a taxi coming home and clinging onto someone’s arm, and knowing that you never want to let go. But you know, as much as you want it, the thought of someone needing you, is far too much to contend with. Instead you will continue living your private life, screaming internally at the every day idiots you encounter, attempting to live up to your ridiculously strict moral code while hating yourself for every little foolish thing you do. Sometimes you feel as if you’re a social pariah. And so you will continue, until these pangs of confusion and sadness hit you again, and you think to yourself as you look down at the gaping gap between your arms- ‘look at my arms, they’re so empty’.

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I am a lover without a lover. I am lovely and lonely and I belong deeply to myself.

Warsan Shire (via wordsnquotes)

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u see the problem i have with my future is i have to decide things

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