Mona Little

Sex Advice for the Budding Sissy

Are you ready to be a girl? Are you ready to submit? Are you ready to give up control? Sissies who make the leap from dressing up and imagining being the woman for a man, to actually being with a man, usually start with a BJ, and then it's another leap from giving BJs and actually taking a dick. For some of us gurls the progression is natural and feels good, but for others it's a big jump. Why is that? There's nothing wrong with being a sissy who wants to dress up and ride a dildo, but it's a very different experience to involve someone else. I know what it's like to feel scared to go out dressed, and to do it anyway. That's part of the experience.

Part of what's going on is a progressive loss of control, and that's very scary. When you dress alone and ride a dildo, you never involve anyone else and you are always in total control. Once you interact with another person, and especially with a horny man, you lose a massive measure of control. When you take his cock in your mouth, you still have a lot of control over what happens, but you've also given up a lot of control to the man who's thrusting his cock down your throat and is focused on getting to his orgasm.

I think it's an even greater loss of control, and the beginning of your fulfillment as a sissy, to take a dick like a girl. When you're being fucked (to put it bluntly), whether he's coming from behind and holding your hips in his hands, or he's on top of you with the weight of his body, you're not in control, he is. He's going to control the pace and the depth and it's going to get very intense as he gets close to orgasm. Learn to enjoy giving up control and let yourself be fucked. Just when you think your ass can't take it any more (like I said, it gets really intense), bite your lip and let him finish at his pace. When you think you have to shout "Stop!" then that's exactly when you need to say, "Harder!" It's difficult when your teeth are clenched and you're focused on the cock that's nailing you down, but you'll learn. It's easy to love once you get used to it.

So there's two things going on here, and the two things are related. You're giving up control, and the experience is getting more intense. Sissies start out batting for the other team, so learning to experience sex as a woman can be difficult at first. Not because it hurts—some us have pain the first time, and some not—but because it's so different. For me, getting fucked was an absolutely overwhelming experience that I can't really describe. But I have come to understand the loss of control and the intensity. Having an extremely intense experience when you don't have control is frightening. It's like going out dressed your first time, only more so. You feel like you've got nothing to hold on to. But when you're getting fucked, you can hold on for dear life to the man who's inside you. If you don't go all the way, I understand. But if you do, there's an incredible experience on the other side, and you have to utterly surrender your body to a man to experience it. Your submission is the price of admission.

God I love it it so much!!!

Imagine looking like this sissy.