Hi there :3

When a black person states that something you did was racist, chill the fuck out. Its annoying dealing with you panicking trying to dissociate yourself from racism. If you're not black, black people already assume youve said nigga or its variant at least once in your life. If they're interacting with you and bringing something up, its because they want you to stop doing that so they can still interact with you(if ur already friends)

sleep disorders/conditions affecting sleep are no fucking joke man. they're more than just "takes an hour to fall asleep." like yeah that sucks but.

I cannot give birth

hi! Trans man here! Ended up finding this blog after Tumblr would NOT stop feeding me bullshit from the transandrophpbia tag. It was so baffling to me the level of ignorance from people in my own community towards the idea that they could possibly have any amount of privilege over another Trans person. Its so disheartening to see so many people ditch the concept of intersectionality the second it stops them from being seen as the most oppressed group ever or whatever. The amount of times I've seen Trans men on these blogs blow posts from Trans women way out of proportion and start like witchhunts against them for nothing burger posts and then turn around and go "Trans women are treated the same trust" as they do everything they can to ruin their lives. So many times I've seen ppl on the transandrophobia tag take a joke post from a Trans woman that says something along the lines of "atp just nuke tmes im so tired" and decide this is the way that every Trans woman must view Trans men and we should actually never speak to Trans women because of this. Like thats insane???? Like the level to which all of these guys ignore any sense of nuance in order to just yell about how mean Trans women are or some shit (and all their examples are purely online because Trans women aren't saying this shit in real life, which these guys would know if they actually spoken to one even once). While some posts on the tag did seem somewhat reasonable at first I began to realize that a lot of them seem to be based on the idea that everything a Trans woman says on the internet is reflective of them in real life as if thats just how the internet works. A lot of the evidence they propose for how Trans men actually aren't privileged over Trans women in any way is just "well sometimes they say mean things online about us and thats oppression" like what??. So glad I blocked that tag and started seeking out transfeminist blogs and realizing the bullshit strawman arguments these dudes were making against yall are based in nothing. Thank you for being a voice of reason in the noise of a bunch of annoying men who want to win the oppression Olympics. Genuinely love ur blog