nsft

🖤 call me “a”

🖤 married and monogamous

🖤 nsft, hard kink (late 20s, NO MINORS)

🖤 they/them, t4t

🖤 follows from tt*****y

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oh i’m so glad i got an ask for this ask meme, feel free to send more.

5. what's a kink you've tried that you've found is just not for you?

-i’m highly experimental, so narrowing that down is hard. especially when i normally try new kinks if they’re ones my spouse finds hot, so i’m that much more likely to enjoy it.

i’d say the time there was someone from my past who was into yiff stuff who tried to get me into it. it was probably also a bad experience because the relationship was itself not healthy, and i didn’t even enjoy sex with any of the people i’d fucked before my spouse. they’re worlds better than anything i’ve experienced before with anyone.

anyway. i don’t judge peoples’ kinks— yiff stuff just isn’t personally my thing.

6. do you do anything to flag what you're into to others in public?

-i LOVE teasing my spouse in public and not caring who sees me lusting after them. things like gripping their inner thigh as they drive, getting a good grip around their neck, or teasing them by getting their attention to suck on my fingers are some of my favorite things to do. best yet is stroking them through their pants at places like restaurants and hiding the fact i’m pleasuring them.

my spouse has a day collar, but i need my own soon: that way, everyone can know i’m already claimed. i’ve also considered letting them brand me.

anything that shows exactly who i belong to when we’re out together gets me hard and wet. possession and ownership. 🖤