Red Flags (for me)
-He has a flip phone. What kind of millionaire has a flip phone? Fuck outta here
-Doesn’t want to take a STD test
-Drives a really old car. If he drives a brand new “regular” car that’s find but if he drives a 2001 toyota bye
-Doesn’t know what Fendi, Gucci, or Hugo Boss are
-Tells me to come over his place on the first, second or third dates
- Can’t send me more pictures of himself because they are on the computer and he doesn’t know how to put it on his phone. (Are you a moron or did you actually expect me to believe that line?)
-Tells me his previous sb had a $500 allowance MONTHLY. (Ladies I am almost positive this is a sign that they have NEVER had a sugar baby)
-Asks, what will I get on the first date if I get you a present.
-Asks any measurements before seeing you in person, ie weight, bra size.
-Doesn’t want to wear a condom because he can’t get it up
-Wants to meet at a bar at 9 p.m. on a tuesday night
- Gives very vague answers
-Tells you “I don’t usual go for a girl like you but this time I’ll make an exception” ie - you aren’t the typical skin color, height, weight aka he is shallow as fuck
-If he is in his 30's
-Actually if he is in his 20’s
-If he had kids under the age of 6
-When I go to meet him an hour away and he doesn’t take care of my travel expenses
That is all I can really think of right now, most if not all have happened to me. Please feel free to add on…
-When he starts promising you the world almost immediately. 9.9 times out of 10 it’s a manipulation tactic so you can fuck him for the promise of luxury without ever seeing an actual cent.
Thank you SO much for your input because that is so true!! Recently my friend who’s a sugar baby had a guy do this to her and she completely fell for it
