bus is my friend. shes no train but shes trying her hardest in a world that hates her

july being tomorrow for the love of god this cant be happening.

adult life is truly just thinking “I NEED TO CLEAN” while dealing with the 17 other things that have a hard deadline

daughter (non-practicing)

sister (deadbeat)

my parents divorce has got me thinking a lot about how theres no force out there assuring everybody gets their happy ending. my parents spent 30 years together and as far as i can tell it was never as good as love should be and nothing stopped them from making that choice. theres no force in the world stopping you from throwing away your life. very few choices ruin your whole life at once (i mean. like. doing a murder and getting caught. for example) but if you just keep choosing the path of unhappiness no one stops you. you can keep doing that as long as you like

tumblr is kind of cool as a platform. i like that it's semi-anonymous and at the same time personality driven rather than "communities" (I think this is actually a bad term for what e.g. subreddits actually are) driven. it's a little gamefied but not to the extent that other platforms are. it's longform blogging so it tends to be better than just-the-quips platforms like twitter in terms of content. and it's not photo/video based so you can actually be somewhat private and both the ugly and the beautiful have relatively equal opportunity. i think it's both what makes it kind of special and unpopular.

Another reason why trains would be good is that most people are not good at driving

the clock app always picks the numbers for you but in calculator the numbers can be anything you want

about to say something mean but i feel like every "male-specific" issue is something that also happens to women its just that a lot of you dont seem to see women as people

women are also feeling lonely and alienated from communities en masse women are also expected to stifle their mental health for the sake of perfomance at work, in relationships, for children ect women are also expected to work extremely hard to maintain a perfect body and perfect health and are punished for being fat/having hair loss/having health issues especially those that affect ones sex life women are also insecure women are also neglected by parents and teachers and authority figures women are also scrutinized for having emotions and punished for not meeting the gendered expectations of our class and expected to climb upwards and overcompensate while being punished for signs of poverty and we get the added bonus on top of, yknow, being women. your emotional issues are not a Crisis Attacking Manhood theyre the way our society is fucking built you just dont see women as people