"I'm scared" - A kpop fan in the 2017 fandom
With all the disbanding groups, members leaving, and not renewing contracts... I'm scared to stan anymore groups bc one way or another I fear that they'll leave too. Believe it or not, but a major part of my trust issues come from my favorite groups disbanding when they said "they'll be here forever", when a member says "I won't leave", but doesn't renew their contracts and leaves anyway. I have nothing against their decisions, it's their life after all and I would still support them with all my heart... But what gets me is that, they left the GROUP, they won't be avle to perform with them anymore, they won't sing the songs that we got used to hearing them sing, we (more or less) won't get to see their enjoyable interacrions with the other members anymore. I even question... Are the members so-called "bonds" even real? Even if you say it is.... How can you be so sure to speak up in behalf of their feelings? I've been through a lot of heartbreaks in the group (SuJu, Exo, INFNT, SNSD & a lot more). I'm so scared of stanning other groups, knowing one day, they might possibly pull apart and leave.
