hi i just want everyone to know that i will never ever EVER be angry with anyone for not replying to my texts even though you’re visibly online and reblogging/posting. i understand that holding a conversation takes a lot more energy and effort than scrolling and posting and that’s 100% okay. take care of yourself first. the whole idea that you HAVE to reply to someone when you’re online is toxic and makes mentally ill people feel as though they are bad friends just because they can’t always reply within minutes.
reblogging again cause it took me a while to get out of the habit of feeling the need to be secretive online cause I didn't feel like being tired was a good enough excuse to not be replying to someone's messages
Esp if you've had relationships (partners, friends, parents, family, etc..) who HAVE demanded a response because they've seen you online is not healthy either way and I hope anyone used to feeling guilty for not replying knows that it's okay to be tired
