te coloquei em um pedestal

at some point you’ve got to realise that life doesn’t get better unless you make it. Choose steps to happiness and CHOOSE your mindset and CHOOSING resilience and optimism. Nothing changes unless you do. Growth mindset starts when you choose it.

life is just so much more fun when you let go of the things stopping you from LIVING! whether it be people, your own inner critic, your stress, life gets better when you let go of things/people that are bad for you. You can do this by physically removing yourself from bad situations or people or if it’s an internal struggle, work on combatting it through therapy and positive self talk, one step at a time. I’ve let go of family, friends, my own inner demons through years of practice to let go of dead weight. Convincing yourself to remain in a toxic situation because of convenience leads to years of regret and sadness. Self care is not only the superficial moisturising and face masks, self care is also recognising that you deserve better.

Are people actually afraid to double text???? I will send 16 messages in a row and feel no shame whatsoever idk

você não gostava de mim. você gostava de ser gostado, você gostava da minha disponibilidade, você gostava da minha insistência, você gostava da minha facilidade, você gostava de ter sua carência curada, você gostava de poder desabafar, você gostava de poder se achar por me ter na palma da sua mão, você gostava dos meus perdões, você gostava de me magoar sabendo que eu não iria embora, você gostava do poder que tinha sobre mim, você gostava de ter uma reserva. mas você nunca gostou de mim. você gostava de ter alguém, não de me ter.

god isn’t it incredible though that whatever we write for whatever reason, it’s always ultimately a love letter to the books, the stories, the writing styles that have moved us? even when we don’t mean it to be – even when we’re writing something mundane – our favourite phrases and ways of expressing things bleed through, often without us even noticing.