Following Along

“A knife in the back. Sharp, Slowly twisting. Pain.”

That’s what my dad told me, When I sat on his knee, When he described his pain.

I looked at him. He looked normal. (this was his normal,)

“Why don’t you rest? Until the pain goes away?”

He looked at me. “If I rested, Until the pain was gone, Nothing would get done.”

Then he set me down, Stood up, And walked off, Not a hint of pain in his stride.

Except I am very poor and can't afford to get them the nice stuff and I'm too far away to just take them thrift shopping and they have no adults who are supportive of their love of girls and queerness and I'm trying so hard not to let myself get sad at feeling like I'm failing them since their mom committed suicide and their dad is a homophobe and bigot. They're currently IDing as GNC but have privately disclosed that they're pretty sure they're trans they're just scared of losing what little family they have left.

I am terrified of losing them to suicide like we lost their mother and I desperately want them to be able to express themselves without feeling imprisoned by their gender so please consider sharing this so I can try to scrape together the bare minimum funds for them.

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100% of the proceeds will go towards helping them trans their gender!

You fight for the rights of racialized trans women first and foremost, because they are the most marginalized out of all of us. That's the only way you get rights protected for white trans women, for non-binary people, for trans men, and yes even for cis women.

You cannot guarantee any of our rights if you try to deny the rights of racialized trans women. And I don't mean that as purely a moral statement, I mean you physically cannot do it. If you make allowances for one marginalized group to continue being oppressed, then you've left the door wide open for all of us to continue being oppressed. And the fascists will walk right through that door with ease every single time. Just look how they carved out exceptions to deny trans women bodily autonomy, which then led directly to abortion rights being overturned.

aliexpress is seriously the best place to look at sex toys because they can’t show nudity so they have to finding other ways to show off the use of the toys.

one of my favorite things is when they decide to give you the whole hard sell.

instead of just being like “hey this is a good sex toy”, they instead try to explain why you’d even need a sex toy, from first principles. and that principle is usually “your boyfriend/husband sucks”. or doesn’t, I guess. 

so the sound of this sex toy is between a flower and a clock! 

I’ve posted about the Hammer Sex Toy before, but it turns out it’s not alone. There’s also… 

found another tool! it’s scissors this time.

another fun trope in aliexpress sex toys: just listing off all the rooms of your house you could use it in!