Despite everything, it really is still me

i think we as a society like really really need to double down on not teaching women and girls that their attraction is inherently predatory btw. like i think we can prevent a lot of issues before they start if we stop telling trans women, fat women, queer women, black women, masc women, neurodivergent women, and every woman alive that they are not hurting someone or being creepy/predatory just because they're attracted to another human being. it's literally fine. they're even allowed to express that attraction out loud or ask someone on a date! you're not a creep for having very common human feelings!

As a transfem, there are people who think me being attracted to MYSELF and finding pleasure in MY OWN APPEARANCE is predatory, I don't EVER want to hear a fatphobes opinion on me loving myself or others

Genuinely, thank you so much for this.

The unfortunate part of the way the internet is able to deliver a little bit of everything all of the time is that it can't actually give you any of it. I wish I could get a little bit of everything all of the time outside of my house and without a screen

Happy 10 year anniversary to this absolutely foundational post

#really cannot emphasize enough how much iguanamouth changed the site’s sense of humor and therefore the timeline of the western world

i mean it’s not like i can just NOT reblog amigara fault. what if one of my followers is one of the lucky ten thousand who HASN’T been unutturably altered for life by it yet? go read it! it’s creepy, but trust me, it was made for you.

if ur a trans girl and ur partner is not an ardent transfeminist frankly you need to dump their bitch ass. you can and will find better partners. i promise. i love you

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Thank fucking god for my ardent transfeminist girlfriend <3

"what if someone regrets transitioning" if you are 18 or over in free country usa you can walk into any tattoo parlor and ask for a tattoo that will be on your body forever and ever and ever and they will give it to you with the understanding that if you dont like the result or you regret it later that's your fucking problem and not theirs

i feel so defensive and protective of people with ARFID like if i had a disorder that made my brain register 90% of food as poison for no reason and i had a bazillion people on the internet constantly calling me a manchild who needs to just grow up and stop being a picky eater i would start killing people

people with ARFID and people with very few autism safe foods and people with contamination OCD and people in ED recovery and everyone else with a complicated relationship with food that no one takes seriously GET BEHIND ME!!!!!!!