Make a wish!

Trauma didn't make me nice, I consciously made me nice because I don't want anyone else to suffer like I did. Trauma didn't make me strong, I made me strong. Don't you dare ever tell me my trauma made me anything but scared, broken, and confused. Don't give credit to the abusers for me being a good person. They didn't make me good, I made myself good.

find someone that accepts all sides of u

if u don’t have good intentions with me pls leave me alone. i’m tired

and patience

and compromise. and learning.

Giving up pride

Trust and respect

staying on the same page through good communication. 

Sex?

I’m tired of temporary happiness. I’m tired of temporary pleasure. I’m tired of temporary people. I’m tired of temporary conversations and connections.

Have you ever met someone and grow attached to them and think “it’s gonna hurt real bad when they leave”