-Microwave noises-

When Gangle is being physically abused, made fun of and sexually blackmailed with her drawings and figures, it’s apparently just for shits and giggles while Gangle is left to suffer with only Zooble willing to help her.

When Ragatha opens up about her abusive mother, it cuts to the characters giving blank stares then it’s just brushed aside. When she was thrown into the deep fryer, writhing in pain, it’s supposed to be funny.

Meanwhile J*x talks about the abuse she went through and it’s meant to be taken seriously and be tragic.

Abuse isn’t something that you just play around with and choose when it’s important. Abuse is something SERIOUS that actually ruins people’s lives, so having Gangle and Ragatha’s abuse be downplayed and used as jokes is just extremely fucked up to me, especially since I’ve been in Gangle’s shoes before and relate to her deeply.

Franco also likes inserting himself into conversations that Otto and Coyle have about their wives (Otto why did you have to bone your sister-) And Franco inserts himself very loudly to yap till everyone leaves.

“Yeah my third wife was a no good-!”

more of my shit posting My Little Trials: Friendship is MK

my watermark doesn't appear on the rarity + lilya one but. I did make it. I just forgor

people do not stop becoming victims when they are also become perpetrators. especially when in a high control environment where they are being actively manipulated or forced into that behavior. their victimhood is not less relevant. victims do not need to be ""good"" people to matter as victims.

you aren't treating them like a debate partner. you are treating them as abuse victims whose lives are controlled by their abusers. YOU don't need to personally do jack shit. it's not your responsibility to save people from their abusers by force. but doing pointless things that only serve to further push them into abuse is unnecessary harm.

its not about them being fucking right or wrong. it is a profoundly abusive organization that endangers the lives of its members. i care about the people who have been hurt more than i care about #owning the church. im sorry but i think it's pretty fucking meanspirited to read the words of an escaped member of this cult, who is still harassed by them, saying "this is not helpful in any way, it only helps the church" and react like this.

Well maybe I don’t WANT to work double as hard as abled people!! Maybe I deserve a BREAK!! Maybe I’ve been working MORE THAN double as hard for MY WHOLE LIFE and it’s led me to immense burnout & caused me to develop several MORE disabilities!! Maybe I should be ACCOMMODATED so I don’t have to KILL MY BODY AND BRAIN over trying to do what abled people can do!! Maybe I DON’T have to work double as hard!! Maybe if there’s the option to let me NOT work double as hard, I should have it, because I’m already working double as hard JUST TO SURVIVE!!