UnapologetAKAly Bee

Generally speaking, the submissive girl has greater needs. She needs to be touched more. Talked to more. Greater attention needs to be paid to her, especially if there are rules and guidelines outside the bedroom. She needs to know that her actions matter, that the time and effort she’s putting into pleasing you actually pleases you. You need to check-in, touch base, reassure; be diligent with your upkeep and follow-through. If you’re not, if she feels you don’t care, if your directives are empty… the dynamic will die. And if the dynamic dies the submissive girl is gone.

some people are afraid to be corny. not me. i live life on the cob, baby.

That's why I listen to music constantly

there’s a special kind of grief you feel towards yourself when you’ve been mentally ill for as long as you remember. you see ppl saying they long to return to their old self but you don’t have an old self, or if there was, you can’t remember it. ur “old self” was a child. this self is all you’ve ever known. then there’s the fear that comes with trying to find out who you are without your mental illnesses, it’s all new to you and you don’t know if you’ll like who you’ll be