♡ In My Own Little World ♡

Well, actually my current bf has next to none kinks. He’s pretty vanilla besides petplay. What I noticed though is that most guys love listening/learming about YOUR kinks.

Listening to their SO get turned on by certain acts or fictional scenarios really hightens their own urges.

But getting to the real meat of your problem…if your SO is open to talking about sex and pleasure though, it doesn’t hurt to share a small glass of wine or sip some beer and bond over fun details.

If it’s possible though, just be direct and ask him about his preferences. The above I mentioned is what I did to experiment on what my bfs comfort levels are with certain things.

Some people are shy and don’t want to seem x or y. But as long as you have an open mind and what he eventually suggests isn’t punishable by law (aka illegal) than you should consider it if it interests you too!

Sounds like they have already disclosed to you that they like being dominated? If you don’t feel comfortable in that role, that’s fine! But don’t let the conversation stop there if you want to ‘spice things up’ as you’ve stated.