Please feminists, explain me something. First thing first. I'm white. I'm cis. Bisexual. Polyamor and polygam. A bit chubby. In love with a white hetero cis boy. Why should it be wrong to be cis-gendered? Why should I feel ashamed to feel comfortable in my body? I'm a born female and I identify myself as a girl. Of course I have my manly sides but still, I'm comfy with myself. So why should it be wrong to be cis? It's okay to be trans or cis or otherkin or whatsoever. You know, I live together with a trans. He says your talking a whole bunch of shit. When I have to accept you being gender fluid or queer or trans or anything related, you have to accept that I'm cis. Point. I'm white. Yes, I went to a good school and my parents had enough money. But why does this make me privileged? I worked for my own money since I was 13. I worked hard for good grades and I worked hard for my apprentice-ship, really fucking hard. None of this was given to me for free. My life up to this point wasn't easy and I'm sure as hell Im not privileged just because I have a fair skin color. You state that white people are bad. You know what that is? Fucking racist. Yeah. You are racist. Everyone going against ANY SKIN COLOR OR RACE, no matter what, is a racist. Even if you are black. Doesn't matter. I was bullied because I wear glasses. Should I tell everyone without glasses to check their "good eyesight-privilege"? That makes no sense to me. All this privilege stuff has nothing to do with oppression. Of course in other countries it may be different. You know, in Germany you are often privileged if you are a foreigner. Other way around. Still I don't act like a piece of shit and blame others for my situation. You know, it's the same with weight. It's okay if you want to be fat. Fat-shaming isn't okay, I agree. But skinny-shaming isn't a bit better. If you want to be the way you are, how about keeping it for yourself? Being thin is not a privilege. Most of the time it's hard work. Stop trying to find excuses for not eating healthy or working out. Almost everyone can loose weight. Next point: Self-diagnosis is not okay. I know people with diagnosed asperger, depression, anxiety, bipolarity and other mental disorders and they have to take a shit ton of meds. I know people that tried to kill themselves. I am diagnosed with a mental disorder. I live together with someone that suffers under severe depression and is in the hospital because of it. And you know what? It sucks. It fucking sucks. It's not romantic nor funny nor anything good. And it's so intolerant to act like you do and be like "I got this and this and this triggers me and this". It's bullshit in 99%. And most of all you don't shout it out to everyone. Most of the time you suffer in silence, alone, and not with your whole Facebook community. Next point. I almost got raped. And I still don't think that all men are rapists. A man looking at you is not rape nor if he talks to you. Rape is something that hurts, physical and emotional, that can break you and make you suffer for the rest of your life, and if a guy looking at you hurts you this way then you got serious issues and should propably see a psychiatrist. Do you really know what oppression is? I doubt it. It's not being able to go to school because you're a girl. Not being able to be homosexual because you could get killed for it. Having to hide yourself under a burca involuntary. Things like that are opressive. We live in 1st world countries. There is no oppression here. I admit that the whole white people black people shit in America is a thing. But that is no reason to be shitty against every white person. A whole bunch of you are also white, remember? Serious matter. Men can be raped by women. Men can be abused by women. Women can be big pieces of shit and treat men badly, as well as the other way around. I saw women treat their man poorly, or their girl. Women can say and do things that hurt terrible. They can do things that men can't. Stop being giant assholes. It's about equality, not oppression, either if it is patriarchy or matriarchy. Go fuck yourself. You are no feminists and never will be.
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