PHYSICAL PRESENCE AND GESTURE.
1. How do they move and carry themselves? Pace, rhythm, gestures, energy?
2. How do they position themselves in a group? Do they like to be the center of attention, or do they hang back at the edges of a crowd?
3. How do they dress? What styles, colors, accessories, and other possessions do they favor? Why?
4. Where and when do they seem most and least at ease? Why? How can you tell?
5. What energizes and drains them most?
DISPOSITION AND TEMPERAMENT.
6. How do they greet the world â what is their typical attitude towards life? How does it differ in different circumstances, or towards different subjects? Why do they take these attitudes, and why do they change? How do these tend to be expressed?
7. What do they care deeply about? What kind of loyalties, commitments, moral codes, life philosophies, passions, callings, or spirituality and faith do they have? How do these tend to be expressed?
8. What kind of inner life do they have â rich and imaginative? Calculating and practical? Full of doubts and fears? Does it find any sort of outlet in their lives?
9. Do they dream? What are those dreams like?
10. Are they more shaped by nature or nurture â who they are, or what has happened to them? How have these shaped who theyâve become as a person?
11. What kind of person could they become in the future? What are some developmental paths that they could take, (best, worst, most likely?) what would cause them to come to pass, and what consequences might they have? What paths would you especially like to see, and why?
CONNECTIONS WITH OTHERS.
12. How do they behave within a group? What role(s) do they take? Does this differ if they know and trust the group, versus finding themselves in a group of strangers? Why?
13. What kind of relationships do they tend to intentionally seek out versus actually cultivate? What kind of social contact do they prefer, and why?
14. How do they respond to difficult social moments? What makes them consider a social situation difficult?
15. How do they present themselves socially? What distinguishes their âpersonaâ from their âtrue selfâ, and what causes that difference?
16. What do they need and want out of relationships, and how do they go about getting it?
17. How do they view and feel about relationships, and how might this manifest in how they handle them, if it does?
ACTIVITIES AND PREFERENCES.
18. What do they strongly like and dislike, in any category? Why?
19. What are they likely to do if they have the opportunity, resources, and time to accomplish it? Why?
20. What kind of activities, interests, and hobbies do they have? What significance and impact do these have in their lives, both positive and negative?
21. What is their preferred level of activity and stimulation? How do they cope if they get either too little or too much?
22. Is there anything that counts as a âdealbreakerâ for them, positively or negatively? What makes things go smoothly, and what spoils an activity or ruins their day? Why?
23. What associations do they bring to mind? Words or phrases, images, metaphors or motifs? Why?