Fanfic writer & Overall Nerd for whatever tweaks my interest My Carrd Adult - she/her - married and real-life mama to kids and cats pfp by the talented @quazart
Hey there! Welcome to my little corner of Tumblr! Although, it's more like the space between the back of the couch and the wall, y'know, where the cats keep batting their toys and dust bunnies congregate, but whatever, you're here, I'm here, let's get acquainted.
My blog is a safe place for all. Minorities, poc, LGBTQIA+, those questioning themselves or their place, or who feel all alone in the world.
You are not alone, you are loved, and you need only reach out if you want a hug or some mom advice. I'm here and will give it to you straight.
Anyway, HIYA! I'm Qwerty, and I write fanfiction. Got a husband and a couple kids in real life, some cats, and a head full of ideas, mostly angst, and blatant self-indulgent tripe that sometimes falls out onto the page. I specialize in character interactions, and deep-diving into their psyche to really find what makes them tick.
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My Carrd
Me on ao3
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My Permission Statement - for works inspired by mine
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Who is Callie MacPherson? - An intro to my oc in the SCU
Who is Scarlett? - An intro to my oc for everywhere else
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I also have a number of writing that I post to Tumblr, mostly in the form of little disembodied 'snippets' or 'shorties', inspired either from conversations, art, or asks I receive. I try to keep these lists updated whenever I post a new one.
Snippets
Ask Shorties
Sonic 3 Analysis Master List
Tags of interest:
#my art : #my writing : #thinking too hard : #mom advice : #off my soapbox
Anyway, thanks for swinging by, and hope you enjoy my various brain droppings!
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I kinda wanna write something for aphantime's drawing of "ME controlled Knux" but I've already written a few of those in the past and my brain is too fried to come up with a new angle. 😭😭
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So I'm scouring the internet for some good screen shots and comic panels and whatnot to start littering enhancing my posts with, and came across the most quintessential Dread image ever.
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“there’s a restaurant two miles from my house called—” nope
“today I learned [celeb] went to my high school—” nope nope nope nope nope
these are all real posts I’ve seen on the internet that allowed me to identify a user’s hometown instantly. if it’s a small town, that’s doubly dangerous, because a bad actor could trace you just by a unique first name or selfie you once posted. in an age where doxxing and stalking are some of the worst I’ve ever seen it, you HAVE to think twice about what you’re posting online.
i once saw a 13-year old post an image they noted as being “a few miles from their house.” it had a theater in the shot with a unique enough name to be local. one google maps search, now everyone knew not only what city they lived in, but the possible neighborhoods in that radius too. and they had a HUGE following…who all knew this was a 13-year-old child.
so yeah. not to sound like a 90s internet safety PSA…but I’m gonna be that PSA for a minute.
if you’re posting an image, there is NO need to say that you live there. you could just be traveling. “saw this in Montana” is better than “saw this by my house!”
before you post about a venue, especially a restaurant or small store, check and see if it’s local—CRUCIALLY if it has only one or two locations. people might travel to arenas or convention centers, but they’re far less likely to be traveling to Bartleby’s Fish and Chips. if it’s an anecdote and you still live nearby, you can honestly just leave the name out entirely.
if you’re sharing a news story, it can just be a story you found and wanted to share. you don’t have to clarify “it happened in my town,” because even if you don’t mention your town name, an easily-googled news article will.
if you’re seeing a concert or meeting a celebrity on a tour that’s stopped locally, wait until they’ve hit a few more venues before you post about it, or at the very least wait until you get home. this is honestly a smart move for any event you attend: unless you’re marketing yourself, there’s no need to advertise your location in real time.
check your selfie backgrounds for anything identifying. this includes city names on venues, school names, street signs, and house numbers.
this stuff is flexible if you no longer live in your hometown, or if your city is particularly big, but there’s STILL no reason to tie yourself to your school, your workplace, or your street. you can call it paranoid, but as someone who’s seen my friends get literal death threats over fictional characters before, the last thing I want is someone willing to act on those threats finding out where they live.
Please also be aware that your posts also provide information about anyone you're with.
I once had a friend post a photo while visiting me with both a unique local business and a set of street signs in the background, while they knew I was being stalked by someone who knew and potentially followed their account. I wasn't in that photo, but other posts from that weekend made it obvious they were staying with me. They hadn't yet been in a position where they regretted having that information publicly available, so it didn't occur to them to avoid sharing it.
Even if you don't (yet) care about your own right to privacy, you're often not the only person you're doxxing
Oh the woes of having one of your favourite characters be the hardest for you to draw. I'm not as consistent with Knux as I am with other characters, but I'm hoping this character sheet helps our storyboard team nonetheless 🤸
I've been trying all damn day to write and it's not coming out. At all. I don't like it, I hate it, it feels so flat, so boring, so awkward, like the written equivalent of an ill-fitting, itchy sweater.
Every word is a struggle to coax outta my brain, and even when they land on the page, it's like a bunch of dead fish. They're not flowing, they're just sitting there, mocking me, making me feel like whatever 'talent', if any, I used to have regarding this has left me.
And I'm wondering if my break absolutely killed whatever part of my brain housed the motivation I needed to really do it well.
I have what I want to write in my head, I know how it's supposed to "look", but I just can't get the words out right.
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Tumblr isn't TikTok. It's not Youtube. It's not Instagram or Twitter or BlueSky or whatever other social media sites are out there, competing for your eyeballs.
There's no algorithm here. There's nothing putting things in front of you, wanting you to just sit and mindlessly scroll as it decides what you should see. (Generally speaking. There are still the "based on your likes" or "because you follow suchandsuch tag" and sponsored stuff, naturally. But those usually aren't outside your realm of interest. Usually.)
Here on Tumblr, you curate your own content. You look for tags that interest you, you follow those who create art/posts/writing that feed that lizard brain the dopamine it so craves. In so doing, you find more and more, because the backbone of this site is reblogging. Take note of this, write it down if you need, this is important.
It's not enough just to follow people and tags. It's not enough just to like something. You need to reblog it. (That's that little back and forth arrow thing below.) Reblogging shares that post to your own blog, so people following you will see it. If it interests them, they (ideally) reblog it, spreading it to their followers, and so on.
If you tell two people, and they tell two people, and they tell two people, then that means a whole helluva lot of people have seen that post who might not have otherwise.
But this won't happen unless you reblog the post.
It doesn't matter how old it is. Seriously, I know some of those other sites seem to actually punish people who engage with older content (which just baffles me, but all hail the algorithm, I guess) but there's no such stigma here. Posts from 10+ years ago are still circulating. It's cool.
ENGAGE WITH WHAT INTERESTS YOU. Comment on that post, like and reblog it, screeching in the tags what it made you feel. Go ahead! That's what this site is for.
Why am I talking about this? Because it all comes back around to creators and the incredible lack of engagement that's been happening lately. Interaction has taken a complete nosedive, both here and on ao3, and it's really affecting the will of people to actually create.
Yes, yes, miss me with that "YoU sHoUlD cReAtE fOr YoUrSeLf!!!!" bull. We do create for ourselves. We share to foster community, to seek engagement and interaction. If that's not there, then we're gonna rethink the sharing part of our creation process.
If, from our perspective, no one cares about what we post, then why should we bother posting at all?
Why should we spend hours/days/weeks on a piece, if it'll only get a cursory glance during a mindless doomscroll? Maybe a like, if we're lucky.
We are not "content creators", dumping algorithmically researched products into the neverending chasm of consumerism. We are creators who put our hearts into what we create, and share that with our fandom, our friends, our online communities. We're reaching out, hoping for others to reach back, to foster friendships, conversation, and comradery.
Instead we're screaming into the void, and the void is demanding "MORE" with nothing else to encourage our hard work.
If no one cares about what we post, then we're simply gonna stop posting.
And then the void will whine about how there's no new content for their fandom. "Where have all the artists/writers gone??" They're likely still creating, they're just not sharing it with people who don't appreciate or care about it enough to open their mouths and say so. Who don't reblog it to share with others.
Don't want something on your main blog? Make a sideblog specifically for reblogs. No one will know who you are, but you'll still help spread a post around to a wider audience.
The internet is changing so much, and so many seem to think that the only option is mindless scrolling and just swallowing whatever the algorithm deems worthy of your viewing pleasure. It's not.
You take control of your experience here. We're not on Tumblr to get internet famous or go viral. We're here to share, to engage, to interact. And the less that happens, the more barren your fandoms are going to become.
REBLOG, for the love of all that's holy. ENGAGE with your favorite artists/authors/blogs. No one wants to feel like they're talking to themselves, like they're working hard on something that's just glanced at and then brushed aside.
I am begging you to show your favorites some love. I guarantee it'll put a smile on their face, and may encourage them to create more.
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