Mahoney's Men

Always exercise caution and negotiate what form of control you want someone to have over you. Please do not rush into something that makes you uncomfortable.

Many of these forms of control are more extreme and appropriate only for those in trusting, long term commitments. Absent of consent these things are not appropriate and even when consensual may only appeal to a specific set of masochistic subs that crave such forms of controlling and seemingly abusive behavior.

1) Use apps to keep control of their location

2) Require them to keep a food log and report to you what they eat

3) Make them share their email, Facebook, Tumblr, or other social media account passwords with you. Set up the security questions and recovery email so that only you can reset them.

4) Keep a safe where you can lock up some of personal items as punishment

5) Plan their outfits for them. Budget what money they can spend on clothes or just do the shopping for them so they never wear clothes they pick for themselves.

6. Gain admin access to their bank account so you can track their spending.

7. Set up a protocol for their behavior in public: how they should address you, when to speak to others, what sort of eye contact they should make. Punish them in private for breaking protocol.

8. Make them wear a fitness device so you can track their activity and sleep schedule and hold them accountable to it. Set a bedtime for them.

9. Keep them locked up in a chastity device.

10. Pick out their barber or hairstylist for them. Make them groom themselves to your liking.

11. If they work outside the home, have them set up their paychecks for direct deposit into YOUR bank account. Transfer a small stipend to them to restrict their spending.

12. Keep tabs on who their friends are and what relatives they speak to on a regular basis. Intervene when there’s a relationship that isn’t to your liking.

13. Use “parental” controls whenever necessary to limit their access to pornography so they will channel their attention to You alone.

14. Set up a protocol for punishment when you’re in a public area. One code word could mean they must get to a private area like a restroom for a spanking or lecture. Another code word could mean they’ll get punished later at home.

15. Find other submissives in the BDSM community that can befriend your sub and then report back to you on their private conversations. Use them as spies to find out how your sub REALLY feels.

16. Make your sub keep a diary that you have access to so you can read their personal thoughts.

17. Order for them when you go out to eat at restaurants.

18. Say things that subtly demean then when you’re with other people, like “he can’t ever think straight” or “they’re not very good at math.” You can also tell embarrassing stories. This will make them feel flustered and keep your power dynamic balanced properly.

19. If you decide to not be monogamous, create an arrangement where only you can decide who will fuck them and when.

20. Make them wear fetish or bondage gear under their clothes when they’re in public.

21. Make them check in with you at specific times when you’re apart.

22. Control the amount of water they drink and when they get to pee. Have fun watching them squirm when you’re out in public together. If they wet themselves- laugh, pretend you don’t know them, and leave them to find a ride home on their own.

23. Make them recite mantras to themselves throughout the day such as “I am property. I will serve my owner. My body belongs to Master.”

24. Enroll them in classes such as cooking or massage therapy so that they can serve you more fully.

25. Set up a protocol for how they will refer to themselves in public and in private. They might have a different protocol for each. Make them change their name or use a nickname if you wish when in public.

26. Give them a strict daily schedule. When they wake up. When they fix you breakfast. When they exercise. When they leave for work, etc.

27. Restrict what type of access they have to transportation. For example, if they can get to work by bus, make them sell their car and not renew their driver’s license to affect their ease of getting places without your permission.

28. Find a place where you can keep them chained up, such as a basement or closet space, when they won’t be fully necessary.

29. Use punishments accordingly to control their behavior. Some subs may require physical discipline while others may just require a lecture or restriction of privileges.

30. Try hypnosis as a means of reprogramming your sub’s mind to fully surrender to you.

31. Install surveillance cameras in your home that only you have access to. Even if you don’t regularly rewatch the footage, this will be enough for fuck with your sub’s mind.

32. Keep food and other household items locked up so that the sub can only access them with your permission.

33. Try to strike feelings of jealousy in your sub when they’re slacking. Pull up Grindr and scroll through it in front of him of find another sub to fuck and tell them how AMAZING the sex was.

34. Marry them so you will be in a legally binding agreement and cement their commitment to you. Find ways to arrange the pre-nup so they’ll be at an extreme disadvantage to leave the relationship.

35. Teach them to be very complementary and respectful to you while around other people. Reward them when they sing your praises and describe what an incredible partner you’ve been to them.

36. Give them incentive and appreciation for the service they’ve done for you. This will provide extra motivation for them.

37. Tattoo or pierce them if you wish.

38. Be the head of the household who decides any major financial decisions or if you decide to move homes. Consider the sub’s input but veto it if necessary.

39. Find ways the sub can make extra money on the side for you.

It’s okay for you to follow, you don’t have to lead,  It’s okay for you to obey, you don’t have to give orders,  It’s okay for you to be feminine, you don’t have to be a real Man, It’s okay for you to be sensitive, you don’t have to be tough,  It’s okay for you to have insecurities, you don’t have to be cocky,  It’s okay for you to be indecisive, you don’t have to make decisions,  It’s okay for you to feel inadequate, you don’t have to be Superior. 

If you are submissive to Men, don’t be ashamed. Love yourself, accept who you really are, and obey a Man who can guide you to be the best boy you can be. 

You deserve love. 

TIPS FOR BEING A GOOD SUBMISSIVE MALE SPOUSE 

 1. Accept his authority at all times. Remember who the Man of the house is and honor that. 

 2. If the two of you should decide, be monogamous and honor that. Being unfaithful to your husband as a submissive male spouse is not forgivable. You need to be available physically, emotionally, and mentally at all times for him and not have affairs with other men.  

 3. If on the flip side your husband ever cheats on you, consider if there was anything that you did that drove him away from you and try to correct that. Remember that “men will be men” and if you aren’t giving it your all he may be tempted to cheat. Work with him to repair your marriage and correct your behavior. 

 4. Be a good servant for him. Anticipate his needs. His home is his castle and he is the King. Clean up after him and do the chores for your husband as needed. It’s helpful to learn cooking skills and other domestic habits as well. 

 5. Be aware of all of your husband’s favorite things to do and make time to do them with him. Put aside your own interests and hobbies so you can focus on your husband’s.  

 6. Make every effort to look good for him. Go to the gym, eat healthy, wear nice clothes, use good hygiene and grooming habits. Figure out what kind of clothes, underwear, and cologne he likes you to wear.  

 7. Remember that his body standards are much different than yours. Your husband’s sexiness as an alpha male comes from his power, confidence, and authority. His waist size or fashion sense doesn’t matter, but yours does! Remember that you as a submissive male are his play thing and adapt to this dynamic.  

 8. Take punishments accordingly. Sometimes he may get angry with you and get physical- shouting, face slaps, some rough housing here and there. Remember as an alpha he’s naturally more aggressive. This may hurt temporarily but focus on the positive! What can you do to make him less angry in the future? 

 9. Be the best little male slut you can be. Indulge in your husband’s fetishes with an open mind. Wear what he wants you to wear. Practice choking yourself and fucking yourself with dildos when he’s at work so you can take his cock like a good bitch. 

Sometimes in our journey towards self discovery, we may question whether or not we are actually faggots. In these situations, I think it’s best to identify what sort of qualities are common in fags. It’s important to note that each fag is different and every individual will have their own degree of each quality. This won’t be true for EVERY faggot, but these are some common characteristics you may notice in yourself or other faggots. 

Here are some characteristics I’ve identified:

Indecisive- Faggots will often find that they have difficulty making decisions for themselves. They are not great at picking the best course of action at any given time. They will ponder endlessly over each potential option before them without ever making a selection, such as where to go to eat or what to wear. Once they do decide, they often make poor choices which they later regret. This is one of the many reasons fags function best with decision-makers for them.

Apologetic- Often due to their poor judgment and decision-making skills, faggots will constantly feel a need to apologize for their behavior and try to make up for it. They may even apologize for things that didn’t even warrant such action, because they are overly sensitive to pleasing others. It’s not necessarily bad for a faggot to be apologetic, as guilt can be a positive motivating factor when a faggot has made a mistake. However, a fag will function best with a Dom that can reassure them that they are forgiven and help coach them towards doing better in the future. 

Self-critical- This is related to the previous quality in that their self criticism often prompts a perceived need for a faggot to apologize. Faggots will often scrutinize everything they say or do, and often feel like they haven’t met the needs of others or have let others down. It’s normal for a faggot to feel this way, but it’s also important for the well-being of a faggot to find reassurance and positive reinforcement when it’s done well, which a Man can provide to it.

Poor athletic ability- Fags will typically have poor coordination and athletic ability. Growing up they were probably the kid that was picked last for team sports and may have experienced bullying from their peers for such lack of strength and athleticism. Their physical weakness can make it easy for an Alpha to manhandle and overpower a faggot’s body, providing a convenience for the man to fulfill His needs as necessary.

Impulsive- In addition to being poor at making decisions, they will find that when they do make a decision for themselves it is through impulsive thought processes that don’t rely on rationality. Faggots are emotional creatures and it is often difficult for them to control their emotions in a way that helps them utilize appropriate critical thinking skills against their emotional impulses. A man can help a faggot stop their foolish decisions as it begins to depend on its man for rational thought.

Feminine- While faggots, either mentally or physically, may technically be considered “male,” they will lack traits that are commonly associated with masculinity. It is often difficult for a faggot to relate to members of their own gender like they do with women. 

Feeble minded- While Men are sharp and quick-witted, fags can seem spacey and like a total dipshit at times. It isn’t to say that a faggot can’t be smart, it just means that its mind may have a tendency to wander and it won’t be able to recall certain details easily like Men can. Fags rely on their emotions and sensitivity towards others while Men rely on reason and self-determination. It may be fine and cute for a faggot to express its own ideas, but it should recognize that’s a Man’s ideas will be more thought-out and put together.

Gullible- Its very easy for a Man to trick a faggot into something. This is why it is absolutely important for a faggot to be aware of its own limitations and only follow after Men that have earned the faggots trust. Men might have fun with their fags by teasing them and seeing how easy it is to manipulate a faggot.

Shy- There are often many outspoken faggots, so this isn’t necessarily a “common” quality. Rather it is a preferred quality, as the best faggots will know when to be seen and not heard. There is an art to subtly that can help draw in Men and make them go wild for a faggot if the artform is utilized properly. 

Humble- Faggots need to know their place and not be cocky. There are many limitations to a faggot’s nature, and it should be aware that it is best when it depends on a real Alpha Man to control and guide it. 

I hear too many times how a fag, slave, or sub is suggesting what they think would be hot to do. They ask to be humiliated and used. They talk about their fantasies. The cunts are missing the mark.

It should always be about what a man wants and helping him feel like the King he is.

- pay attention to what a man says the first time. - don’t ask 100 questions just notice what he enjoys. - don’t make him repeat himself. - notice where he likes to sit when he enters. - is his drink within arms reach? - I what is his favorite snack and is it next to him? - does he like silence and to unwind without having to order you to around. Is the tv turned on to his shoe or the book he was reading out next to him. - is everything clean and smelling the way he likes - does he sigh in content when you take the initiative as a footstool after all the chores are done. - does he prefer you not be in view so you wait in a closet or knelt behind where he sits until needed. - he should never have to ask for a refill - he should never have to initiate boot or foot worship. - does it please the man you serve when you humiliate yourself for his amusement. - have you taken the time to have the items he likes to use ready without having to go look for them. - have you asked the man you serve if there is something he would like some better (after working on what he has already instructed - have you asked yourself what you could do to make His life easier or more convenient today?

These are minimal things a faggot should be thinking of. So the next time you think, “it would be really hot if master did…,” try adjusting yourself to anticipate his needs.