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[louder than everyone] MAN I THINK IT DEPENDS!

The self coddling goes crazy like sometimes it’s about you, other times it’s not. It’s very situational and that’s the problem that comes with the pop psychology interpretation of self love, is that people are so focused on operating from a main character lens that they can’t even differentiate between whether it IS about them or if it has to do with other circumstances the person is going through. Ultimately the inability to read the room because of this neurotic self absorption does nothing but hurt your capacity for human connection. Like who wants to befriend or be in a relationship with someone whose ability to decode situations stretches only as far as “what does this mean for me” .

Y'all don't ignore ppl enough. That's why you stressed out

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