Maddie.

Stop abusing your boyfriends and yes what you are doing is abuse.

Stop:

Yelling at him in front of his friends 

Hitting or slapping him when he does or says something you don’t like

Telling him he doesn’t have a choice when it comes to decisions that involve both of you 

Telling him he can’t hang out with friends because you don’t like him

Telling him to not talk to other girls even if they are his friend

Forcing him to spend every moment with you 

Belittling him and pointing out all his flaws

Calling him stupid or making fun of him for making a mistake

Threatening to break up with him if he doesn’t do what you want

Being emotionally manipulative and crying until he does what you want

Accusing him of cheating every time he’s not with you

Blow up is phone if he doesn’t text you every five minutes 

Telling him you are the must thing that has ever happened to him and no one else will love

Physically attacking him when ever you are mad

Forcing him to have sex despite that fact that he said he didn’t want to

Invading his privacy by going through his phone

Getting mad at him for changing his password and demanding he tell you what it is

If a guy did any of these things to a girl it would be considered abuse but since its the other way around its considered normal. Throughout High school I saw many girl treating their boyfriends like shit. Sometime even physically abusing them in the hallways and no one trying to stop it because its a girl attacking a boy. 

Boys: If your girlfriend does anything on this list leave her. It is abuse and you deserve better.

i’m really happy that nathan’s getting more fans, i really am, but it sucks, honestly, for the reason behind it. i’ll admit, when it first came up (and i stress this part greatly), i did agree that calum hood and him look alike, BUT TO A CERTAIN EXTENT, and yes i did find it funny that people recognized that. but about a week after tumblr’s discovery (or rediscovery) of him, it’s irritating/tiring seeing posts of calum and nathan’s faces morphed together or people adding to other posts saying, “OMG he looks so much like calum!!” or things like “whoa calum looks so different here!” now i understand that that comment is supposed to be a joke, but now it’s turned into a joke that’s no longer funny.

this whole thing has turned into something like a younger sibling trying to talk to you when you watch tv and they place themselves right in front of you and you’re trying to move around so you can see the tv but they keep going at it. it’s annoying because that’s all i see now in his tag. every other post is regarding calum hood or 5sos one way or another and that’s not what his tag is for. it’s constantly being shoved down the throats who go through the tag or even his tumblr search. i know some of you have said that you’re a fan of 5sos and you’ve been a fan of nathan adrian before this, i respect that, but that’s different compared to being a fan of him just because he looks like some guy in a band you like (oh sue me for calling calum “some guy in a band”).

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