For the record: Blocking someone who personally wronged you is one thing and a perfectly okay thing to do.
Going out of your way to isolate that person from all of their friends and peers and have hundreds to thousands of people mass block them and hire a private investigator to threaten their IRL friends and work just because you're bitter about what happened is, at best, bullying behavior. And just generally a really dick move.
She is apparently now in her discord servers telling people to send me rude messages and they are doing it.
Attacking me, herself, would be one thing, okay. I'd get it. But to be too lazy or too chicken shit to do that and instead having your followers, months after the fact, try and gang up on me in your name while you sit back and pretend (poorly) to be unaware?
What I'm thinking isn't very nice so I won't say it. But, that's... something.
Apparently she's also having her followers go after my friends and mutuals as well trying to convince them to block me.
Thankfully they're smarter and more forgiving than that.
It drives me crazy that my stalker/abuser gets to tell all these lies about me and how she isolated me from so many of my friends and peers online because they all believe her without a second thought.
It drives me crazy that no one asked my side and no one seemed to care when I responded to her dishonest callout filled with lies and exaggerations and her twisted version of the events and tried to clear things up. And no one even cared that she doxxed my real name and went after me IRL in fucked up ways.
It drives me crazy that she's STILL telling lies about me and getting sympathy for things didn't even do to her.
And it drives me crazy that there's nothing can do about any of it but just suffer her thousands of followers thinking all these wrong awful things about me. All because she's just bitter about how things ended between us and thinks that warrants trying to ruin my life.
And she didn't. She didn't ruin my life.
She almost caused me to lose my home, my job, my friends, and put a poor, disabled, chronically ill woman on the streets in Summer in one of the hottest places on Earth.
But she didn't. And it matters that she didn't. But she still has everything else she did to me and her lies the all people who believe her.
Sometimes it really is the most surprising people who screw you over.
She was my best friend and I loved her, and was I was so sure she loved me too.
Turns out her true colors tell a very different story than the one she puts out. But no one will believe it because it's easier to paint me as the villain and call it a day, I guess.
