Daddy's Here...

I’m sorry for disappearing this past week. And I’m sorry for the 100+ unread messages I have. It’s not your fault. And I’m sorry but I’m not sure if I can run this page anymore. I’m not in a good place right now.

It sounds like things are going well, just keep them going and don’t be afraid to flirt a little bit either. 

No, no, no. Do whatever you want to each other but understand the significance of doing something that would affect a completely separate life.Because either the baby would get aborted, would get put up for adoption, or would grow up with parents that didn’t want them (at least not at first.) None of those are ideal.If you really must do this (and I don’t recommend it at all, just get on birth control) time your ovulation and have sex well before your window of getting pregnant. 

The best rules will be tailored to your individual needs as a sub.

I would hope this would be something we talked about well in advance and have done completely intentionally. I definitely want kids in the future, but I would be very upset with a little that purposely got pregnant without talking with me first. That is not fair both to myself and the child. 

I am indeed quite genuine. 😉

Do stuff that’s challenging, stuff that makes you uncomfortable. Reach out and talk to people. Do something you’ve been putting off because you were scared and shy. It is hard. Push through and do it anyway.When I was a child, I was very shy and had very little confidence. Back in elementary school, a student in the school play who played a major role got in very big trouble and wasn’t allowed to participate anymore.One day I was pulled out of class and asked to fill the part because I was able to sing, and they believed I could pick up the acting skills quick if I practiced.I nailed it. And it was one of the the hardest things I’d ever done up to that point in my life.But, afterwards I was a lot more outgoing. I was able to talk to people, to show my little talents and not worry about people’s judgements. I did something that made me uncomfortable, and became far more confident because of it.Try it. Even if it’s something small. I promise you that it will help. 

Do his actions match his words? Does he show you that he loves you?Maybe you can never know for sure, but don’t let your past experiences cloud how you feel about him. I know it’s hard, but remember that he had nothing to do with those people.

Would that be so bad? 

Thank you. I’m definitely not perfect but I do try my best.

No need to be so shy, I’m always happy to talk.

I wouldn’t refer to it as a platonic babysitter if you don’t want to upset him. I wouldn’t want anybody sharing my role of taking care of my little, even if it was different. But that’s just me. He could be completely different.Talk to him if you feel you need to.

Daddy, Papa, Papa Bear, Daddy Bear, Dada are a few I’ve heard used before.The best ones will be ones you come up with together.

Maybe, I’ll have to think about it.

I’ll go to bed if you will.

I suppose it depends on what you consider to be a lot.It does take me a bit of time to go through them each day but meeting so many wonderful people is one of the most rewarding things about running this page, so I’m very happy to do it.

Spooning, head on chest, head on my lap while I gently stroke her cheek etc.