Lee Jun Ki for Harper's Bazaar (China) - April 2014
Would you look for a Chinese girlfriend?
The staff never fails to ask me this each time I visit China, how's Chinese girls? I like them very much. In fact, for two people in love, what's most important is the other person, language and nationality is not too important.
What is the first thing you notice of a girl?
kkk, I will first look at her eyes, I like girls with a pair of beautiful eyes.
Are you a romantic person?
I think I am. Actually, what's important is not to create the romantic atmosphere, it's to keep her in mind always. From the morning you wake up to bedtime at night, she remains in your heart. Always share the daily dribs and drabs on days when you couldn't be with her. I think it is important that one must have such a heart.
Will you cook for your girlfriend?
I can practically cook any Korean dishes. If I had a girlfriend,I would like to cook the various Italian pasta, accompanied by red wine. I enjoy cooking, it pleases me to see others enjoy my dishes, even if they are not my girlfriends. When I get married or have a girlfriend, she will be immersed in my homemade cuisine.
What do you comprehend by the gentleness in man? How should women get along with a Mr Sunshine like you?
This is very important, we must always think of and empathize with them. On the other hand, as a man, we have to be tough when we need to. A weak man appears indecisive. In other words, the same applies to women. One has to learn to be more considerate, and shower your counterpart with more love. Much effort is needed to achieve this, of course.As for myself, I will do my best to become a man who can make my woman happy, safe and comfortable!
Have you ever lost your temper with a girl?
I think most guys had lost their temper with girls before. I'm not one who loses my temper easily. For the initial 3, 4 times, I would exercise restrain and tried to communicate with her. Keep trying, to make good atmosphere. However, if this attempt produced adverse effects on my girlfriend or it simply couldn't work and she didn't change for the better, I would lose my temper.But it would only be a short outburst.Of course, I wouldn't play cold war for long, after I had simmered down. I would explain why I was mad at her and apologized. Hence, one has to master some tactics in a relationship, otherwise it could be tiring for both parties.
How would you handle the arguments and contradictions in a relationship?
I think one party should take a step back in a tiff.As for me, I wouldn't want it to last too long, so I would try to find a way to end it as soon as possible. If the man knows the reason behind her anger, knows what she wants, there will not be argument.
From the point of view of a man, what's the bottom line of love? How would you handle a break up?
I have had unpleasant break ups.Bottom line is when both parties are exhausted. There's no affection for each other anymore, and no matter how hard you tried, you feel tired. I will tell her directly, although it is heart breaking .For the sake of both of us, this could be the best decision.
Does Mr Sunshine prefer girls to make the initiative? What if you have no feelings for her?
Haha, I think I will make more initiative instead.As a gentle guy, I have to express my love carefully and gradually. For one whom I have no feelings for, I will reject them bluntly I think, bearing in mind not to hurt them, since she may get hurt further from my rejection.Hence I have to take extra care in expressing my rejection solemnly.
[Translated & edited by cwng@JGfamily ,co -translated by Elizabeth Wong for JGfamily]
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