one day or one night

tumblr users' full inability to recognize their behavior in the abstract manifests in this very funny thing where if you see a post that says "you should stop being shitty about people's kinks and positing them as primary producers of violence" it will have 150k notes and if you see a post that says "[x controversial kink named in specific] is play pretend and not a primary producer of violence" it will have 300 notes get water filter screenshotted a dozen times and have people telling OP to kill themself in inbox for the next two years

Love my spiral 🌀 #MySpiral

saying an intersex animal (or worse, a person) is "biologically nonbinary" or "biologically trans" is the same as saying a person born with a specific combination of genitals, organs, and hormones are "biologically female" or "biologically male". if you said that a person is "biologically female/male", and therefore it can't be *truly* changed because of their physical traits they were born with, anyone who cares at all about trans people would (rightly) say you're being extremely transphobic. so why is it okay to say this about intersex people?

so so sooo many people including trans people still dont understand the concept that gender identity is not innate to anyone and has no correlation with either common specific combination of genitals, organs, and hormones. every single cis person (and plenty of trans people) have a part of being a man or woman that they hate and wish they could change. everyone was assigned a gender when they were a child and views the world through their assigned gender, and most people don't really question it because they don't see it as that bad of an issue or they genuinely don't realize that anything is wrong. in a world without this strictly and violently enforced gender binary, there would be very few people who fully align with what we see as a "man" or a "woman". there is no correlation between genitals and gender - it's all societal. and a lot of so called trans activists do not realize this

"Why do you hate found family" you guys will call characters who r literally coworkers siblings its stupid.

I think ppl r actually too obsessed with doing nuclear family dynamics on their beloved characters i don't want mom and dad and their two kids this shit is lame irl why can't people just have funny little friendships.