all in the name

my sideblog for butchposting

the crazy thing about the drew afualo/ER fightmaster situation is that somehow EVERYONE is losing. just got a video on my fyp and the comments are all like “yeah wtf is a nonbinary lesbian?? are yall mentally ill??” like bro leave me out of it i didnt do anything.

just went on twitter looking for strap sucking and only got 1000 posts about how youre mentally ill or secretly straight if u like to suck strap #oops

@n0turg1rlfr1end made a post about how relying on AI is lame and embarrassing (correct) and this guy commented “live and let live” and i just responded “no” and he got so mad he commented this under my pinned post LMAOOOO

ik we have all seen the trend of people stitching “lucky you” into the inside zipper of their jeans which is super cute and fun. i also saw someone post a pair that said “did i say yes?” which is an equally artistic and informative statement on consent!

sometimes losing people for being trans feels soul crushing and sometimes you are the only person on the beach at 3am. sometimes you are shirtless in a pair of swim trunks with only the kinesiology tape you bought in bulk for 14 bucks between your body and the waves. sometimes you dream that one day the sun will feel hot against your scarred chest on the same beach, but today you need to rehearse the steps, late at night when no one is there to see. sometimes you feel the sand against your trans back and that feeling forces you to stop asking “why don’t they love me” and start asking “what were they so scared of?”