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Hiii I keep seeing this one person on tiktok saying nightwing being romani is inherently racist (and it seems like maybe youβve seen them too π). I understand the arguments I see over how itβs written or if heβs white/POC or any other kind of nuanced stuff like that, but theyβre not even saying that, theyβre saying that at its core the retcon is racist bc itβs a stereotype. Iβve seen and enjoyed a lot of your posts about this topic but I was curious if you think this personβs opinion is valid/how you would counter it. Sorry if youβve answered this kind of question before and I havent seen it!
Yeah, Iβve definitely seen themβ¦
Spoiler: this is gonna be a vent/rant post lol
Part of me really wants to just reply to their videos with one of my own* and just stand there like π§ββοΈβhi.β Because, surprise, I am a Showman β my entire cultural identity is literally just defined as being a gypsy/traveller from the fairground/circus. Please, oh omniscient Tiktoker who isnβt even part of our closed culture, tell me all about how my very existence and the existence of the 20,000 other Showmen in the UK alone is nothing but a racist stereotype.
Maybe that sounds harsh, but it is something which does really annoy me. Our culture is closed, and as such, this information is not freely available, so it does make me question why people with no real tangible connection to our culture feel qualified to comment so definitively on the issue.
Iβm not saying that the representation of Dickβs heritage in canon or in fandom has been perfect. There definitely are times in which certain writers fall back or rely on racist tropes or caricatures in their writing (I hesitate to say βespecially Graysonβ, since Dickβs heritage is a lot more central to her storytelling than subsequent runs, so thereβs gonna be more opportunity to slip up. Generally, I enjoy her run). Similarly, as Iβve posted about before, there are also many in the fandom who have, even if well intentioned, fallen back on racist stereotypes, ironically, in an attempt to undo racist stereotypes. And, yeah, these examples can and should be called out and discussed (especially with the input of someone who is GRT, ideally), but as someone who is ethnically Romani, who grew up speaking the language and part of the culture, on the fairgrounds myself with my family in the circus, the idea that Dickβs heritage, even if it is a retcon, is racist is, simply, absolutely ludicrous to me because it is my lived experience! You canβt βsounds fake but okβ my literal life story, lol.
Also: something I find really common in those types of TikTok posts is discussion of what % Romani heritage Dick hasβ¦ which 1) is a very American perception of race which really weirds out my European mind, and 2) seems WAY more racist than the supposed racism they claim to be against. So many of these posts/comments try to claim that Dick is βonly 1/4 Romaniβ and therefore it doesnβt matter at all, which feels very much like theyβre trying to preserve their perfect WASPy gorja boy, which feels dodgy to me lol. My response here would be that I truly donβt know where theyβre getting that information from in current canon. I presume it comes from a mix of pre-Flashpoint John Grayson being Romani, uses of phrases like βRomani heritageβ in canon, the idea that Mary was a dental assistant (and thus could never be Romani because we all know that Romani people canβt have any job other than *checks notes* circus performer, fortune teller, Esmerelda, or thief), and William Cobb as Dickβs great-grandfather. And whilst I could argue that, since Rebirth, we could argue that Dick could be 7/8 Romani (if we consider βeverythingβs canonβ and thus Johnβs dad could be a diddakoi, since who is to say if Cobb is Romani or not, and Mary is commonly presented as Romani across multiple runs), I wonβt bother to argue that, because Iβd much rather say that unless youβre a real fan of the Nuremberg Laws, it doesnβt even fucking matter what % Romani he is. Iβve got a cousin who is, ethnically, 3/4 Romani and who grew up on the fairgrounds and is fully in the culture β her mum remarried a gorja man, and so my cousinβs half-siblings are only ethnically 1/4 Romani, and guess what β it doesnβt fucking matter; they are, in the eyes of everyone in the culture, Romani kids who grew up in the culture, speak the language, grew up on fairgrounds, etc etc. So if itβs good enough for us, why is it not good enough for random gorjas on the internet?
I also want to point out that I also donβt view the fact that itβs a retcon as being a bad thing. Even if youβre somehow a continuity purist and think this came out of nowhere, I think itβs totally possible to read a Romani/Showman background into Dickβs character, pre-Grayson. Many of Dickβs core personality traits are the type of beliefs which parents in our culture set out to instil into their kids, and the fact that itβs never brought up before also isnβt a big deal, because, tbh, I donβt really have much reason to talk about my ethnicity in such explicit terms in my real life, either. I personally love the fact that Grayson retconned this in, and that itβs gradually become more accepted in subsequent runs, because 1) I donβt think itβs too stereotypical, I think itβs believable, 2) rep is rep, and itβs not something we get a lot of (especially in a positive light), 3) even if she didnβt always get it right, Grayson tried! (Honestly, I think a lot of the fandomβs handling of Dickβs ethnicity is a lot more problematic than what we see in Graysonβs writing).
This ended up being way longer (and perhaps passive-aggressive lol) than I intended, but TLDR: even if Dick being a gypsy from the circus is stereotypical, that doesnβt mean itβs wrong, because there are plenty of us for whom that is our exact experience (such as myself!). In fact, I would even argue that the hoops in which these people go through in order to argue that Dick being Romani is racist is often even more racist than the thing theyβre arguing against itself! Anyway, you can pry Romani Dick Grayson from my cold, dead hands lol
*I wonβt, because I donβt like being on camera anyway, but especially not since I work with kids.
ive been doing my readingβ¦
lonnie wasnt blonde in her earliest appearances she was comic book ginger like wally west
Heβs so puppy coded or whatever.

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if i were a respected british actor with any principles at all i would simply not agree to a project whose earnings will have material consequences for trans people but maybe i'm built differently
another one bites the dust
List of other people who also suck for this reason:
Bill Nighy
Hugh Laurie
James McAvoy
John Lithgow
Katherine Parkinson
Keira Knightley
Kit Harrington
Leo Woodall
Mackenzie Crook
Mathew MacFadyen
Matt Berry
Nick Frost
Paul Whitehouse
Peter Serafinowicz
Riz Ahmed
Shirley Bassey
Simon Armitage
Simon Pegg
Stephen Fry
Stephen Mangan
Warwick Davis
Black MirrorΒ director Ally Pankiw rejected an opportunity to work onΒ HBO's Harry PotterΒ series because ofΒ J.K. Rowling's views on gender.Β
"It simply is this easy to say no to funding transphobia"
[ID: a tweet by @/FilmUpdates that reads, βNicholas Hoult has been cast as Gilderoy Lockhart in Season 2 of HBO's 'HARRY POTTER' series.β Attached to the tweet is a photo of Hoult and of the previous Lockhart actor. END ID]
I dont care about matt damon and ben affleck but they gave us Which could mean nothing so they are like rpf patron saints in a way
I'll actually draw requests from Inbox someday... I'm a lazy bum ok?π’
the idea that people in a system are just as much real living people as the host should not be controversial yet somehow here we are.....
I think that being alive and having a sense of individual identity is more than enough criteria to constitute Being A Person. someone's personhood and sense of self originating from something other than Physically Being Born doesn't make them any less of a real person. if people in a system would prefer to be treated like PEOPLE then I'm very sorry but that's really not a big ask and all that is required of you in return is basic kindness and respect. and I hope that is a managable task for most of you!
also hey. hi everyone. I love you. if you are already trying to be better about this I am proud of you and I'm glad you're trying, okay? if you have yet to start doing this, now is a perfect time to start, and I'm proud of you for deciding to rethink how you interact with others!! don't worry too much. any effort is appreciated more than you could possibly know, trust me.
you know me, robin? guy whose blog this is? I am not ANY MORE of a person than sunny or francis or jasper or anyone else in my system. and they are not ANY LESS of a person than I am. the host of a system is not the "real one" and the rest of my crew aren't "extras". I'm the same as them. I'm a member of a system too!!!!! sunny is in my system, sure!!! BUT I AM ALSO A MEMBER IN HER SYSTEM!!!!! I don't own anyone!!!! when I'm away from front, I am in EXACTLY THE SAME POSITION AS EVERYONE ELSE IN HERE. this might be different for other systems but this is how it is for my bunch. and the friends I cherish the most are the ones who make an effort to understand this. [:
Bad Lonnie comic: Augh, Why are you beating me, Red Hood? These misogynists I hired to be my goons to crash the wedding are not moving fast enough, ahhh! I'm blond and I'm a sell-out bum. The Joker is my dad and he doesn't luv me i wish he wuved me π’
Good Lonnie comic: I'm against anything that's against the people! Cruelty, brutality, exploitation...these are the enemies of the people...please don't kill our planet...im gonna take Batman's money via computer hacking and send it to a different country as charity. I'm gay as fuck with Tim Drake who I parallel with in our upbringings, knowledge and our way of enacting justice.

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Jiri Trnka : Czech puppet-maker, illustrator, motion-picture animator and film director. (1912 - 1969)
BAD anarky comic: I am a deeply unstable individual who is drawn to fringe and dangerous ideologies. I ultimately truly only care about myself and will rely on Batman/Other Heroes to bail me out if I get in over my head. Everything I say is a either a rouse for my true, selfish motivation or a warning sign that I am going completely off the deep end--IF I bother with an ideological framework at all.
GOOD anarky comic: this bridge FUCKING SUCKS
the avatar movies are crazy bc "what if colonizers literally inhabited and puppeteered the bodies of indigenous peoples in order to exploit their homeland" sounds like the premise of some sort of anticolonial horror film, like specifically the kind of thing that would be commenting on self-indigenization among white settlers, but because it's James Cameron his whole takeaway from that premise is "it would be preddy cool"
actually sorry. the takeaway is also "the white settler possessing an indigenous body would actually be extremely good, perhaps even The Best, at being indigenous, and he would become their Leader"
whaaaaaat
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if i was kon-el and had to live through the new52 with memories of my previous timeline id kill myself