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#the tragic man in question (requested by @livinginsunnyhell )

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my master thesis for hollanov not having kids is basically as follows—
- during their careers it’s just not happening. sorry. they would barely see that child. the domestic labor that straight-married professional athletes provide compared to their wives is a rounding error. multiplied by two? this hypothetical kid would be raised by grandparents and nannies. shane and eventually ilya will have spent enough time around hayden and jackie to understand all of this and know it isn’t plausible.
- immediately after their careers end, they’re definitely going to want a few years to themselves, and if they have the longevity that athletes of their caliber typically enjoy, that will put them into their 40s before they’re even ready to consider their options.
- then it gets juicy.
i think ilya would be terrified of passing on his mental illness/dementia genes. even if he wasn’t genetically involved, he would struggle with the prospect of parenting through depression, potentially perpetuating the cycle of abuse, and the possibility of developing dementia himself and generally being an older parent and aging during the kid’s young adulthood the way his father did when he was in his twenties.
i think #myocdshane (undiagnosed obv) would subconsciously know that having a kid would be torture for his anxieties. he’s already going on hourslong reddit research spirals if he notices the dog pooped a slightly different texture. a human baby? 23 hours per day screentime on webmd. absolutely not. shane in his 40s is also going to slowly be coming to terms with his lifelong weird-to-nonexistent relationship with personal autonomy. again, i think a lot of this is subconscious, but on some level he is going to be unsettled by the idea of his identity being subsumed by parenthood right when he’s just getting used to it not being subsumed by being ShaneHollanderHockeyPlayer
i think they waffle and pray on it quite a lot for a few years but then they’re getting into the latter half of their 40s and neither of them is quite ready to take the plunge and one night they just look at each other and Know it isn’t happening. and they both feel awful mostly because they really wanted shane’s parents to have grandkids but they are at this point mature enough to know that that can’t be the #1 reason to have children. crucially the fact that they are intellectually and emotionally intelligent enough to know all of this means that they would be great parents lol. but they aren’t doin it
⠀ Federal agents with Homeland Security Investigations tracked down Rochester, NY resident David Streever last month at his home. He was out of town, so they gave his wife a warning notice claiming that he had potentially violated the law when he wrote a harsh email months earlier to Todd Lyons, who stepped down as the acting director of ICE at the end of May. Not satisfied with tracking down his home, the government agents apparently accessed his credit card records to find out what hotel he was staying at and delivered another notice there. By keeping tabs on his movements, they're sending an even more sinister threat — we're watching you, and we can get you whenever we want. Nowhere is safe for you. They're threatening to arrest Streever because he wrote to Lyons' government email address on Jan. 26 after federal immigration officers in Minneapolis murdered two U.S. citizen observers during the immigration enforcement surge there. The three-paragraph note compared Lyons to a Nazi and predicted that Lyons would be tormented by his own conscience. The Trump administration has made it clear that our Freedom of Speech is under attack. They have taken aggressive actions against student protesters, and political critics, including arresting journalists, and coercing media and universities into suppressing opposing viewpoints. Now they are threatening our Freedom of Speech — the freedoms of private citizens like you and me. And all of this is made much worse because of the spineless Republicans in control of Congress. Not only are they doing nothing to stop it, they are actually encouraging it. Republicans have handed their congressional power over to Trump. They do whatever he tells them to do. It's one thing if we don't want to get involved in minor policies we don't agree with. But it's an entirely different thing to watch in real time as our Free Speech is being taken away, ...and then do nothing about it. We can't let that happen. There is an election coming up in November, isn't there? Let them know how important your Freedom of Speech is to you.
create! create! even if it’s been a while. even if you don’t know what to write or draw or sing. connect with what once brought you joy and you will remember how. create in a new way, knit or dance or crochet. try spoken word or painting. poetry or pottery. the freedom in creating… it’s liberating

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the same way i believe that ilya wouldn’t break things off with shane if cliff didn’t knock him out i believe shane would still ask ilya to marry him even if the plane didn’t malfunctioned
This is the world capitalists want to return to.
ilya posts a video on instagram with the caption “my husband and the dog he didn’t want” and it’s shane cradling anya like a baby outside the vet’s office whispering “you were so brave, honey. we’ll get you a pup cup on the drive home and you can sit in my lap while papa drives. you did such a good job when the scary lady poked you. such a good girl” and people everywhere lose their fucking minds
Arrest everyone involved.
Money saved: maybe a couple million dollars.
People killed: around three quarters of a million.
Never forget that DOGE was formed so Elon et al could fumble around sensitive government databases in order to hamper multiple investigations into his companies and government contracts
He is now a trillionaire thanks in no small part to this fiasco

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The bubble is nigh.
The KIDS act (which contains KOSA) passed the US house, so I would recommend calling your senators and telling them to vote in opposition. I don't think I need to stress the importance of being able to use the internet freely and without privacy barriers being breached.
There are many scripts online you can follow, many ways to tweak your message to fit your senator (ESPECIALLY if they are up for reelection this year). Whether it's a recording you reach or a real person, be straightforward, don't argue, just let your rep know that you are a constituent and you oppose the KIDS act, etc.
Here is where you can search for your senator... call, email, fax, bring them physical letters, show up in person to their offices if you are able.
The KIDS Act, ostensibly aimed at protecting children, will raise the risk for journalists, dissidents, and whistleblowers.
Contact your representatives, US folx. Yes, even if you're scared. Yes, even if you think it doesn't matter, even if you think they won't listen. Write an email if you can't make a call. Call after hours and leave a message. Call during office hours if you feel up to it, but do something. Call every day. Email every day. Fucking bother your rep. They work for you, not the other way around.
Your single call is not the point. The point is the aggregate of calls and emails. The point is that even "safe" Republicans don't feel really safe right now. The point is that "safe" Democrats are feeling pressure from the left due to the success of DSA candidates. You think they won't listen, and they'll probably try to make you think they're not, but they do, in the aggregate. The midterms have them running scared right now, and now is the time to shut this shit down.
Yes, again. Sorry it's not over. The people who really, really want to criminalize dissent are going to make us keep fighting this one. Sorry about that, but keep fighting.
ian saw the dirtiest boy in chicago and decided to keep him forever
As he should
UNPOPULAR OPINION: A lot of "mental health issues" disappear when bills are paid, rent is secure, and the fridge is full. Peace is expensive. And pretending money doesn't affect mental health is privilege.

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don’t know who needs to hear this but ao3 is not a social media. it’s an archive. a library. please stop treating it like twitter or tiktok
who is treating it like twitter or tiktok?
people need to include examples with posts that claim these sorts of things honestly because seventy five percent of the reblogged tags are people going 'glad I don't know anyone who does this' 'i hope I never see this' 'how are they using it like socmed?' or 'literally awful, I've never seen this but people need to stop doing it.' and the other twenty five percent are complaining about users posting legitimate fan works that they Just Don't Like being on the archive. Yes, you can include art; Yes, you can include headcanons; Yes, you can include drabbles. You can even (get this) include video if it's a fanwork. It is good etiquette to condense shorter works down into one fic, but that's a spam issue, not an inappropriate content issue. The only legitimate thing I saw was ONE user going 'people should stop creating fics just for a hiatus notice' and that took me a few minutes of scrolling to find. This doesn't exist!!! And if it does, not to a serious enough level where any of us know about it!!!! Include examples or die by my sword
Ok, here are some examples of people treating AO3 like social media or like it has an algorithm (violating the TOS in some cases, just being deeply annoying in others).
Continually updating the date on their work so it gets pushed to the top of the tag, without actually making updates. Not against the TOS, just HORRIBLE behaviour, absolutely rude as fuck, I will mute people who do this with zero hesitation. Everyone gets their turn at the top of the page, you aren't special. (Caveat: people whose work was in an unrevealed/anon collection, like for an exchange or event, get one free redate in my opinion, once their name is attached or the work is revealed. Otherwise stop redating your work to try and get more people to see it.)
Tagging "for reach" rather than based on the content of the work. Stop grabbing every single fandom that might be vaguely related (e.g. if you're writing Dracula fic, don't tag every single fandom with vampires in it). Don't tag your RPF as the FPF fandom too, "so more people will see it." (We will see it, and we'll mute you.) Stop tagging in the main character/relationship fields for characters who appear in one paragraph and never speak, or for relationships that are just implied in the background (use the Additional tags field for those if you want.) Tagging actively wrong fandoms is against the TOS and reportable, tagging inaccurate rels, characters, or additional tags is not against the TOS but just asshole behaviour.
Creating placeholder posts. "Story coming soon!" - go away, I'm muting you, I will never see your story. Against the TOS, reportable.
Treating the Archive like a personal journal, making updates just to complain about how mean people are being to you, or how you can't update this week because you're sick, or just repeating your fave ship name 1000 times or whatever. Put it on tiktok , tumblr, bluesky, whatever. Put a link to your social media in your profile or author's note. Non-fanworks are against the TOS.
Acting like it's weird to comment on older works. It's an archive. It's there to preserve fanworks for as long as possible. Those works are there for you to read. You can comment on them even if they're 10, 15, 50 years old. It's fine. If the author didn't want comments, they can disable comments. If they have comments turned on, assume they want you to comment.
Complaining that they want AO3 to recommend similar works to them based on their reading habits/preferences. No, you don't want this. You do not want AO3 to track your reading and push works it thinks might be similar to you, not least because good lord what a terrible idea. AO3 also doesn't want this, because it doesn't want to collect that information about you, because information it doesn't collect is information that can never be leaked or stolen. Learn how to search or perish.
Asking for a downvote button. Again, it's not social media, this isn't reddit, you don't need to downvote a fic you don't like, you can just backbutton away. There's no algorithm so you would just be using it to be a dick to the person who posted that work.
Also, don't combine your shorter works into one big work, this is also deeply annoying. It prevents people from finding works accurately, because if they're searching for a work over 5k and instead they find your collection of 50 drabbles posted as chapters of one big work, that's worse than useless to them. If your hugeass one drabble-per-chapter work has one chapter with the tag I want, I'm not going to sift through to find which chapter it is. Just post your works as individual works if they're actually individual works, no matter how short.
🧚♀️✨ The Mortifying Ordeal Of Spiraling Over Your Husband’s Terrible (In)Experience With Women by @livinginsunnyhell ✨🧚♀️
The one where Shane and Ilya run into Shane’s high school ex-girlfriend and Ilya gets really weird about it.
words: 15.7k
tw: sexual content
note: jealous Ilya does something to me. This fic has no right to make me giggle like I did 😂🫶🏻
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