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Is your little acting up?? Being fussy? Whining and wont tell you whats wrong?

You may have many questions, you may not know what to do but fear not! There are simple steps you can take to figure out why your little is such a grumpyrumpy pants.

They wont tell you whats wrong.

Depending on your little’s little age range, in some cases your little may be feeling so small they are nonverbal. Talking feels awkward and not right when someone is this little and making them can be uncomfortable and possibly make them even more upset.

Well then what do I do?

Most of the time when a little is fussy it is one of three things. Hungry, sleepy or need some love.

**An important thing to keep in mind is tone, ask your little in a caring way**

“Is my little baby hungry? Want daddy/ mommy to make you something yummy?”

“Does some little girl/boy need a nappy?”

“Does someone need some huggies? Come here baby”

Most littles will even chipper up just from their caregiver trying to figure out what they need from feeling so loved and cared for. And may even forget what they want/ need in the first place.

My little is still fussy.

If the three main reasons weren't it try a couple more common needs/wants.

“Do you want your binkie baby?”

“Do you need daddy/ mommy to grab you *insert stuffie name*?”

“Do you need to use the potty?”

**If you get this far I know it may be difficult and even frustrating sometimes to figure out your little but do NOT get mad at your little**

If none of these seems to fix your fussy baby, after you’ve attempted all the other steps, very lovingly asking your little what is the matter should work as a last resort.

Ex.

“Baby girl, daddy really wants to make his little girl happy, but he cant do that If she doesn’t tell him what is the matter. Okay sweetie? So can you use your big girl words for daddy?” 

**This last resort step requires lots of coaxing**

And then done! You now have a happy little bundle of giggles and joy that is your little back!

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Hey! So, I’ve decided to compile a list of things for new daddys/doms. This list is for daddy’s with littles (age regressors). If there is anything you feel I’ve left out, feel free to let me know!

-They’re your little, make them feel like one. She/he is going to want to be in little space, so let them. Help them into it. A simple phrase gets my little into little space, so find out what works best for them.

-Establish rules. Try not to get over 20 rules, cause they can get hard to remember after a while. My little personally has 27, but some of our rules are common sense, so she remembers them easily. Be on the lookout for a rules list next. 

-Be supportive of them. If you’re both new, they may want to experiment with pacis, bottles, sippy cups, diapers, etc. Make sure the both of you talk it out and be there for them. Even if they are experienced in dd/lg and knows what they want, never ignore them. Be there and be supportive. 

-Punish bad behavior. I know, I know. You love them and don’t want to make them sad/upset. But trust me, when they start acting up in public and embarrassing you, you’re gonna wish you had started punishing them. 

-Take care of them. If you’re not in a LDR, this is a little easier. If you live together, tuck them in, or make meals, bathe them (with her permission), read them bedtime stories, and other small things to keep them in good health. If you are in a LDR, you can still read bedtime stories over FaceTime/skype, make sure they’re eating well, make them study, etc. 

-Know their stuffies names.  I cannot stress this enough. It seems like a small task, but it means so much to them that you remember their names. It also means a lot to the stuffies if you know their names (they also are very nice to you if you remember their names and dont put bad idea in your littles head as they often do) 

-Know a few cute nicknames. Underrated, but my little loves cute nicknames. Princess, baby girl, kitten, little one, little girl, etc. 

-Find your ‘daddy voice’. It’s your strict, ‘you better stop it right now’ voice that you use on your little when they’re breaking a rule, or doing something bad. It works wonders. 

-Don’t be afraid to be their daddy in public. I’m not saying to make them call you daddy in front of other people (don’t do that. the people around you didn’t ask for you to expose your kink to them) but if she’s with friends and you hear her curse, you can look at her and raise your eyebrows. She’ll get the point. I tend to tap her on the butt as a warning, but if she does it more than once, ill whisper in her ear something like ‘princesses don’t curse like that. Timeout for you later’. 

-Know their little space triggers. There isn’t much I can say about that, other than to just know what puts her in little space. 

1. Never yell at them when their headspace or even out of. Opt to use a stern voice.

2. Never call them annoying, irritating, nagging, and much more. That is one of the quickest way to make them feel insecure.

3. Never curse at your little. Maybe if that’s what you both are into when having play time but never out of that.

4. Never ever ignore your little. Even if they are in time out or you met it as a punishment, never outright ignore them. You’re only hurting them.

5. Never pressure your little or any little in fact to do anything they are not comfortable with. That includes threatening to leave them if they don’t do something

{P.S. If you caregiver ever does this…you should leave them}

6. Never leave your little alone without a notice. You’ll only make them anxious and worried.

7. Never belittle your little or make them feel as if they aren’t good enough for you. In fact if you ever do that, then YOU aren’t good enough for them.

8. Never take out your anger on your little or blame them for something that does not include them.

9. Never mentally OR physically abuse your power over your little. It was their choice to submit control to you. Make sure you use it correctly.

10. Never forget that aftercare is very important for a little. After playtime, punishments etc. They thrive on knowing that they’re loved and cared for.

11. Never EVER ignore when your little uses their safe word.

12. Never make fun of your little when they come to you about something serious. Take everything they say serious unless you’re both goofing around.

13. Never cheat on your little. That includes if you’re poly. Everyone in a poly relationship is supposed to be aware of each other. Cheating is not a mistake, it is a choice.

14. Never divulge anything private between you and your little, unless they are comfortable with it.