Have you smashed the world's shell today?

Sorry for radio silence over here, my fiance and I have been scrambling to get his visa sorted so he can stay here with me, since his previous living situation became untenable while he was in aus visiting me. Paying for all of this is going to suck so we've got a fundraiser up:

Anon, I'm sorry but if you're going to send me accusations about random strangers I can't just take you at your word without context or evidence -- if you are genuinely trying to help then please understand that it is dangerous for abuse victims to get that information around the way you're doing. "Anonymous tips" like that are just as often used as an abusive mobbing tactic on this site as they are genuine messages, and again, I'm sorry, it is unsafe on a personal level and it is unsafe to set a precedent of responding to messages like that.

I still like the internet despite it all but god I'm so sick and tired of logging onto one of three websites where artists hang out and having to immediately leave for the week because one random asshole trans person made an asshole post and everyone's latched onto it as an excuse to say the most mask off bigoted shit they can muster while pretend it's somehow for the good of the community