Oklahoma Girl

1. Yes, You might be proud of your Penis. You might get a thrill from sharing "Mr Winky". But I can promise you, that while there are a few women that may actually enjoy getting unsolicited dick pics, for the most part, the women here do NOT want to see pictures of your dick. Neither Soft OR Hard. The Women of Tumblr get sent so many unsolicited dick pics every day that unless your dick is something really special they are not going to be impressed. If they want to see it...they will ask. So yeah...DON'T BE THAT GUY.

2. Also… They are more than likely NOT interested in hearing about whatever filthy fantasy you have created in your mind about them either. You are not going to Woo them with that opening line of "I pin you to the wall by your throat and rip your panties off". They've heard it a million times before. Just saying.

3. Please don't come out of the blue referring to yourself as their Dom or their "Daddy". Submission is given. Never taken. If you have no idea what the lady is into, don't just assume you're the guy to claim her submission. That is just a dick move and not usually at all welcomed or received gently.

All of that being said…

What the women of Tumblr WOULD like is...A friendly conversation, or perhaps a platonic compliment…or comment.

“Congrats on the new job’

"Your new hair color looks amazing”

"How is the new puppy doing?”

Etc. Etc.

Please remember the lovely ladies of Tumblr owe you NOTHING. They are not required to send you pictures, share personal details about themselves, or even respond to your private messages.

It's not rocket science dude. Just be a decent human being. Give them Respect, Friendship, and Support. Treat them the way you'd want someone to treat your daughter…

But for Christ sakes...leave "Mr Winky" in your pants until his presence is requested.

Hope this helps.