Sammi

Reminder that:

• lesbian isn’t a dirty word

• lesbianism has always included trans lesbians

• not every lesbian is cisgender

• lesbian is not interchangeable with bisexuality or pansexuality, and the new craze of “bisexual/pansexual lesbians” isn’t a valid thing

• a stud is referring to a black lesbian specifically

• a butch lesbian and a feminine lesbian couple aren’t trying to act like a man and a woman in a relationship, not everything revolves around heterosexual couples

• there is no “man” in a lesbian relationship, that’s the whole point, so don’t ask “which one of you is the man and which one of you is the woman in the relationship?”