When you're trans *and* attracted to the sex you wanna be, you gotta be really careful with the porn you look at to make sure you're seeing a variety of bodies of different shapes and sizes, otherwise you start comparing yourself to one ideal (usually either "skinny twink" or "muscle god" if you're transmasc, the Influencer Bod if you're transfem probably) and beating yourself up about how you'll never look like that. Meanwhile there are tons of blogs thirsting over chubby or even outright fat dudes. Meanwhile today at Taco Bell I saw a woman walk into the store, and she had a broad face and strong shoulders and a belly to match her bra size and no obvious makeup, and in that moment and with the way she walked I thought she was the most beautiful person I'd seen all week. You do not have to be what the media pushes as beauty to be desired. Someone will want you if you want to be wanted. Always remember that.
