Iām going to tell you something nobody told me:
It is O-fucking-Kay if you think youāre trans except for that one thing
If you think you might be a girl but you like having your hair short, or you donāt like wearing dresses, or you donāt want to wear makeup, that is totally okay
If you think you might be a guy but you like having long hair or you really love skirts or you wear lots of sparkly jewellery, that is totally okay
If you think you might be nonbinary but you really like presenting in a way that aligns with your agab, that is totally okay
If you think you might be trans but you arenāt sure if you want hormones, that is totally okay
If you think youāre trans āexcept forā¦ā that is totally okay and get this: you donāt have to change that part of yourself to be trans
You can if you want to, but if you donāt, that is totally okay




















