Since itâs now officially Pride Month, hereâs some reminders for y'all:
If youâre âneutralâ on ace/aro discourse, youâre on the side of ace/aro exclusionists.
If youâre âneutralâ on trans and nonbinary discourse, youâre on the side of transmeds/truscum, TERFs, and other trans-exclusionary people.
If youâre âneutralâ on pan discourse, youâre on the side of pan exclusionists.
If youâre âneutralâ on queer discourse, youâre on the side of queer exclusionists.
If youâre âneutralâ on any discourse about whether or not a gender identity, sexual orientation, or romantic orientation is real, valid, and part of the LGBTQ+ community, youâre on the side of the oppressor.
You either believe these identities are part of this community, which, historically-speaking, they are, or you donât.
You can think and say discourse on these identities is âstupidâ or âpointlessâ or whatever else all you want, but to the people who consistently have their identities debated, itâs not stupid. Itâs not pointless. It matters to them, and it matters to those who support them. Thinking and saying stuff like that only further invalidates those people, tears them down and hurts them, and creates an even bigger divide in this community, in their community, in our community!!
Itâs Pride Month! This is our time to celebrate our identities, to be proud of who we are as members of the LGBTQ+ community!! This is not the time to alienate and invalidate your fellow community members. By doing so, youâre blatantly denying queer history, our history. So please, keep your gatekeeping to yourself. Let us be proud of who we are! Our queer elders fought for our rights to be treated equally, to be seen, to be recognized, to be accepted, to be validated. They didnât fight for y'all to go around hurting other members of this community because you refuse to accept them for their LGBTQ+ identities. By doing this, youâre basically slapping our queer elders in the face, and for that, you should be ashamed.
This is our month. We are here, we are queer, and we will not be erased!!!