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Local Power and the Social Order

#patrick wyman #american gentry #rural america

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They don't just want to control women’s bodies—they’re getting off on it.

#gop #republican #jessica valenti #abortion rights

dog-of-ulthar

I'm so mad that a crucial piece of ADHD infrastructure for me has been learning to leave shit half done. It flies in the face of all conventional wisdom. It flies in the face of my own experience, as a serial ongoing project neglector. I gotta just stop, and stop where it makes the LEAST amount of sense to stop.

If I say "just let me just get to a good stopping point," that is the devil speaking through me. If I get to a good stopping point, I wrap up a big chunk of a project, I put everything away, mentally and physically. Getting to a good stopping point means finishing up all the easy stuff you already figured out how to do, so the next step when you try to get back to it is all hard stuff, AND you have to get all the Tools and Materials out again? Nothing will come of this. One million quilt blocks be upon ye, and no finished quilt.

And if I say "I'll power through and finish now, and then I'll be done," this is an even bigger and meaner devil. I know I CAN work when I'm getting progressively more tired, hungry, or frustrated, but I also know my efficiently is going to start dropping rapidly. There is NO POINT in pushing through that, if you aren't in high school. Adult deadlines aren't real. File for an extension on your taxes and do that shit whenever. Don't finish Now. Finish in the morning, finish after lunch, after you've taken a little walk. You have to fight the demon that really really REALLY wants to be Done, because when you force yourself to work while not at your best you cause it to take twice as long and make you four times as miserable. I know you're thinking "but if I don't finish while I have motivation I might never finish", and that's true, but only if you stop WRONG

You gotta stop time's up pencils down NO last minute final touches. Leave the needle in the fabric. Do not tie a knot. For the love of god do not put anything away if you can help it. Do not save and exist that word document. Listen, it fucking hurts. It rankles at you the rest of the day, the feeling of "oooh I was so close, I just gotta do this one little thing." That's GOOD. That feeling is what breaks the cycle, the tendency to put something down and not touch it for a month or more. That one little thing is a gift to yourself in the morning. It gets you back in. Then when you're high on having finished your big task and STILL full of energy because it's a new day and you only did one little thing?? Maybe you're going to bask in that for a while, but if you're anything like me that's when you start the next hard thing. Because you're already up and doing stuff, and you've just proven to yourself that projects do get finished sometimes. And THIS is how you build momentum. This is how you regain faith in yourself.

newlyy

Not that I think all marriages are doomed but when deciding who to marry you should ask yourself “is this someone I’d want to divorce?” As in, is this someone I believe would be mature and fair, even when they’re upset and don’t particularly like me at the moment. Is this someone I could continue to trust while going through an adversarial process? And if the answer is no, don’t marry them.

derinthescarletpescatarian

There's a kindergarten near my house and a sometimes they play this cleaning up song at an absurd volume so I'm sitting inside and can hear "pick it up! Pick it up!" and every time I think "that's not a bad idea actually" and obey the cleaning song.

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Earth’s Scapegoat and her Sacrificial Lamb

#project hail Mary

The lettuce-producing Taylor Farms was linked to the widespread use of prison labor before its involvement in a cyclospora outbreak.

#taylor farms #forced labor #prison labor #of fucking course #almost like how we treat the farmworkers directly affects the quality of our food #diarrhea lettuce #cyclospora

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Sylvia Sidney in a publicity photo, c. 1932.

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Sylvia Sidney wearing a belted black satin evening gown with chiffon ruffled neckline, with bejeweled buckle and clips, for Merrily We Go to Hell (1932).

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New-to-me movies seen in 2025: Merrily We Go to Hell (1932)

"This town is filled with wives who closed their eyes, took a jump, and are now screaming for help."

The Criterion Challenge: A film by a director whose work you have not seen before (Dorothy Arzner)

The only thing worse than almost crying in front of your new doctor is when said doctor is very handsome and very kind, and you know he'd be so nice about your meltdown. And he's asking for trip recommendations and laughing at your jokes as you try to hold it together until you shed some tears on the bus. In 48 hours, I hop on a plane for two weeks, and it can't come quickly enough.

#personal #life of la maja #hanging on by the skin of my teeth #literally

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sabertoothwalrus

I love when someone is explaining instructions to a group I’m in and they look at me and it reminds them to say something about using preferred names/pronouns or that there’s vegan food options available. I go by my given name/pronouns and I’m not vegan but I’m proud that I can provide this service

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miamaimania

“Freak Out Girl” ⟳ Hannah Epstein ⌇ Rug-hooked comic strip

derinthescarletpescatarian

Betaing for a friend and their story is so much better than mine. I gotta lock in I gotta get fucking good at this. I gotta learn to write better. Other people are knocking this shit out of the park, there's no reason that I can't do that too.

derinthescarletpescatarian

goth-queen

kaylmao

idk i would personally rather give up access to certain products seasonally or locally than have people enslaved to give me the ability to have any product any place any time. i think i can go without tomatoes in january.

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homunculus-argument

My boyfriend starts sneezing when it's going to rain (water) because he's allergic to ground mould (earth) that rises into the air. His sister is allergic to direct sunlight (fire) and their little brother has cold intolerance (air).

Only the avatar, who could get their ass beat by all the four elements

homunculus-argument

24 hours later and it's raining like fuck. No forecast said that it was going to rain, and here we were trying to figure out what could he possibly be reacting to, sinze he was sneezing like hell and it wasn't supposed to rain any time soon.

lo and behold.

The number of “gray divorces” rises each year. The trend has been seen in countries like the US and elsewhere, but takes on particular signi

#asian women #divorce

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